Hell threads come up so much, this is my general response, I hope you don’t mind. You can also search for other one’s of course.
- First, people need to get the pop. image of hell out of their heads. The one where God sends people to a fiery furnace to be roasted over a grill while demons in red leotards poke them with pitchforks to see if they are well done yet. This makes for good artwork, but there is not a very theologically sophisticated version of hell.
- Rather, hell needs to be understand as a self-willed separation from God. God does not send people to hell, people freely choose to separate themselves from God. God does not wish people to go to hell. He was Himself tortured and killed to prevent it and would offer people as many chances of forgiveness as would do any good. But it is too realistic to think that some people will reject that forgiveness. It is very hard for people to admit they are wrong. So God does what such people want, he leaves them alone, that is all. C.S. Lewis said that “in the end there are two kinds of people, those who say to God, ‘thy will be done,’ and those to whom God says ‘thy will be done.’ All that are in Hell choose it, without that choice there could be no hell.”
- Surely you can see how this has to be? Take as an example Hitler. Let us suppose (we don’t know, of course, but as an example) that he refused to repent and be sorry no matter how many chances he was given. Does it seem right that, unrepentant, he should sit down to the same celebration feast as his innocent victims? More still, he would not even want to. He would refuse to enter heaven as long as his victims were there. And so God would do just what he wants, God would leave him alone. And that soul, rejecting forgiveness, rejecting the source of all goodness and joy, shut up in itself with its rage, hatred, bitterness, and envy would be hell. How could it not be?
St. Augustine said that every disordered mind is its own punishment.
- There are no people in Hell. C.S. Lewis said “what is cast into hell is not a person, it is remains,” what is left of what was once a person. NT Wright pointed out that one fact of human life is that people become like what they worship. Hence why it is so important we worship the right things, we are to reflect the image of God and by doing so, we can become like Him. But when people worship the wrong things, money, sex, or nurse bitterness, they reflect those things, to the point that they pass into an ex-human state. So no people are tortured in hell. It is the remains of every mind shut in on itself rejecting God.
Suggested reading:
CS. Lewis, The Great Divorce.
CS Lewis, “Hell” in The Problem of Pain (chap. 8).
NT Wright, “Beyond Hope, Beyond Pity,” Surprised by Hope, pp.175-183