L is for God’s Unconditional LOVE, part 1.
There is a difference between questioning God’s unconditional love and questioning God’s unconditional love.

To understand this difference, one needs to go back to the journalism mantra Who? How? What? When? Where? and Why?
We sing the “What?”
Amazing grace. How sweet the sound
that saved a wretch like me.
Many of us can picture God, in unconditional love, reaching down to us and with His strong arms, He pulls us from the mud. Certainly, God knows our muddy condition. Still, He never minds getting dirty. Somewhere there is a Scripture verse about “washing our robes.”
In my childhood neighborhood, there would be pictures of God as an old-looking man with a long white beard sitting on a cloud. That is so far from the truth

A better picture truth is Jesus as the Good Shepherd. How wonderful it can be when we picture ourself safe in His arms. No matter how muddy we can be, Jesus does not drop us.
The second “questioning God’s unconditional love” often has a dark purpose. What seems to be innocent proposals turns out to be a denial of human’s intellective free choice. When it becomes impossible to reject God because God “automatically” forgives, the road is open to changing the Catholic Church from inside.
In 1950, Pope Pius XII strongly warned about the danger of softening annoying doctrines so that everyone can be comfortable in a Big Tent religion.
From the encyclical
Humani Generis.
11. Another danger is perceived which is all the more serious because it is more concealed beneath the mask of virtue. There are many who, deploring disagreement among men and intellectual confusion, through an imprudent zeal for souls, are urged by a great and ardent desire to do away with the barrier that divides good and honest men; these advocate an “eirenism” according to which, by setting aside the questions which divide men, they aim not only at joining forces to repel the attacks of atheism, but also at reconciling things opposed to one another in the field of dogma. And as in former times some questioned whether the traditional apologetics of the Church did not constitute an obstacle rather than a help to the winning of souls for Christ, so today some are presumptive enough to question seriously whether theology and theological methods, such as with the approval of ecclesiastical authority are found in our schools, should not only be perfected, but also completely reformed, in order to promote the more efficacious propagation of the kingdom of Christ everywhere throughout the world among men of every culture and religious opinion.
12. Now if these only aimed at adapting ecclesiastical teaching and methods to modern conditions and requirements, through the introduction of some new explanations, there would be scarcely any reason for alarm. But some through enthusiasm for an imprudent “eirenism” seem to consider as an obstacle to the restoration of fraternal union, things founded on the laws and principles given by Christ and likewise on institutions founded by Him, or which are the defense and support of the integrity of the faith, and the removal of which would bring about the union of all, but only to their destruction.
In my opinion, the words “but only to their destruction.” can describe what has been happening in our era. For example, empty pews.