**Just as Form has an ontological primacy over its substantial complement, Matter, so also does masculinity have a natural primacy over femininity. The two are essentially related rather like Act is to Potency (or Action to Passion). The latter requires the prior existence of the former for its own contingent presence, but not the other way around; and it likewise dependently remains incomplete unless perfected from without, externally – though, again, the reverse is not always or necessarily the case. **
The male relates to the female most properly in the same way God (our Father) relates to creation, or the earth (Mother Nature), how Christ acts toward His Church; as soul to body, bridegroom to bride, husband to wife, father to mother, man to woman, etc. When the Word of the Lord tells us in Scripture that Eve was created second, out of Adam’s rib, God isn’t really somehow supplicating to the supposedly misogynistic sentiments of an unforgivably patriarchal people. On the contrary, He’s actually informing us of a pretty profound Truth that’s rooted in the metaphysical fact behind our common origin in Nature.
Now, all of us are feminine in regard to God, and therefore we appropriately relate to Him in such a modest fashion, i.e., with typically feminine behavior, also being sure to use the corresponding masculine terms in our reference to Him. Thus, in light of His rightful Authority, each and every one of us, whether male or female, ought to approach Him with great respect, obedience, and submission.
As for the initial question: God the Father is masculine as our Lord in His divinity, yet not a man and, hence, neither literally male nor female; the Son of Man, however, is nevertheless a man; and the Son of Man is the Son of God the Father; and the Son of God the Father is God. Consequently, one may say, “God is male,” and indeed speak the truth, as Jesus Christ is clearly a male human of the homo sapiens sapiens biological species. On the other hand, one can never state the truth asserting that God is female. So there are two correct options in this thread’s poll, as it turns out: Neither, and Male.