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PJD1987
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Dear Friends,
Firstly, I apologize for a lengthy post, but please bear with me.
I just watched this video by Fr. Robert Barron:
youtube.com/watch?v=dmsa0sg4Od4&feature=relmfu
Led me to wonder about this thought…because if everyone is saved, then what is the point of following any religion, one could just go the secular humanist route and try to “be a good person” and God would forgive the rest. On the other hand, I’ll give a personal example…and I’ll wrap it all up nicely together, so bear with me…
My mother and father were raised Catholic, but do not follow the faith very well. Before I came along, they both had previous marriages with other children and then got married in a civil ceremony, presumably because they did not get annulments for the previous marriages (although I’ve never had the heart to ask). Neither of them have been to Reconciliation since before I was born (and probably a long time before that as well), possibly due to their marriage status? I don’t know that’s probably only part of it and is simply conjecture. But they both receive every time they go to Mass.
My mother goes to Mass Christmas and Easter (sometimes)…today when I was on my way out of the house to go to Mass she said, “Should I go to Mass?” and I said, “Well…you should always go to Mass,” and then she proceeded to not go to Mass. Later on this evening, I convinced her to sign all three of us (mom, dad, and I) up for a Fr. Barron study series they will be having at my parish, and I said, “You’ll definitely learn a lot…” and she responded, “Oh, I want to learn…the Church has opened its mind a lot, you couldn’t POSSIBLY believe the stuff the nuns and priests used to teach me back in the 50s and 60s…” to which I replied, “The stuff you learned back then is still the same now, mom…” and she just repeated, “Well…they’ve opened up their minds about a lot…” I give that example just to give a glimpse of where my mother is at in her faith…and it’s very troubling to me, to say the least.
My father is much better and attends Mass with me every weekend, but tends to not take anything too seriously. He likes to joke about the faith, I showed him a new Catholic ad for the 2012 election which some of you may have seen (youtube.com/watch?v=D9vQt6IXXaM) and he joked, “…well that’s quite a good piece of propaganda…” which was not the answer I was looking for, unfortunately. In any case, he has not deep spiritual or Scriptural or Traditional knowledge or understanding of his faith, it’s more of just a habit for him.
I tell you all that to say…while I don’t particularly agree with the “everyone gets to Heaven no matter what” philosophy that some have put forth, I also can’t condemn my parents to Hell for their shortcomings in their faith life either. While they may not be following their faith the way they should, they are still decent people, and I’m not sure what I am supposed to believe about God’s mercy and justice when it comes to people like my parents. I know we shouldn’t encourage the “just be a good person” attitude, because like I said, what then is the point of following a religion? But the alternative is that good, decent people like my parents will be in Hell…
Any thoughts are greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Paul
Firstly, I apologize for a lengthy post, but please bear with me.
I just watched this video by Fr. Robert Barron:
youtube.com/watch?v=dmsa0sg4Od4&feature=relmfu
Led me to wonder about this thought…because if everyone is saved, then what is the point of following any religion, one could just go the secular humanist route and try to “be a good person” and God would forgive the rest. On the other hand, I’ll give a personal example…and I’ll wrap it all up nicely together, so bear with me…
My mother and father were raised Catholic, but do not follow the faith very well. Before I came along, they both had previous marriages with other children and then got married in a civil ceremony, presumably because they did not get annulments for the previous marriages (although I’ve never had the heart to ask). Neither of them have been to Reconciliation since before I was born (and probably a long time before that as well), possibly due to their marriage status? I don’t know that’s probably only part of it and is simply conjecture. But they both receive every time they go to Mass.
My mother goes to Mass Christmas and Easter (sometimes)…today when I was on my way out of the house to go to Mass she said, “Should I go to Mass?” and I said, “Well…you should always go to Mass,” and then she proceeded to not go to Mass. Later on this evening, I convinced her to sign all three of us (mom, dad, and I) up for a Fr. Barron study series they will be having at my parish, and I said, “You’ll definitely learn a lot…” and she responded, “Oh, I want to learn…the Church has opened its mind a lot, you couldn’t POSSIBLY believe the stuff the nuns and priests used to teach me back in the 50s and 60s…” to which I replied, “The stuff you learned back then is still the same now, mom…” and she just repeated, “Well…they’ve opened up their minds about a lot…” I give that example just to give a glimpse of where my mother is at in her faith…and it’s very troubling to me, to say the least.
My father is much better and attends Mass with me every weekend, but tends to not take anything too seriously. He likes to joke about the faith, I showed him a new Catholic ad for the 2012 election which some of you may have seen (youtube.com/watch?v=D9vQt6IXXaM) and he joked, “…well that’s quite a good piece of propaganda…” which was not the answer I was looking for, unfortunately. In any case, he has not deep spiritual or Scriptural or Traditional knowledge or understanding of his faith, it’s more of just a habit for him.
I tell you all that to say…while I don’t particularly agree with the “everyone gets to Heaven no matter what” philosophy that some have put forth, I also can’t condemn my parents to Hell for their shortcomings in their faith life either. While they may not be following their faith the way they should, they are still decent people, and I’m not sure what I am supposed to believe about God’s mercy and justice when it comes to people like my parents. I know we shouldn’t encourage the “just be a good person” attitude, because like I said, what then is the point of following a religion? But the alternative is that good, decent people like my parents will be in Hell…
Any thoughts are greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Paul