Is it a sin , and How do I overcome it?

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My wife is away from me for 4 weeks. These days I always daydream her about we making love each other and we also talks it over the phone and talks with lots of love .

But I have a concern in my heart If I am only considering and loving her for bodily pleasures alone.
What shall I do, I have a real sexual desire for her and we talks about it over the phone .
I find it really difficult to overcome this desire for my wife. Sometime I think these thoughts are crossing the limit when I encourage it .
Also I am a little concerened If I am giving her first place in my life than God.

Will this be considered a sin?
Even while praying rosary I find it difficult sometimes.

I am Catholic, and don’t want to hurt the Holy Spirit even to the tinest.

I wish If someone a Priest or someone who can discern help me please .
You can be critical , Its fine, I want to know on what situations It can be considered a sin ?

Thank you
God bless
With prayers
 
faithfultogod said:
What shall I do, I have a real sexual desire for her and we talks about it over the phone .
I find it really difficult to overcome this desire for my wife. Sometime I think these thoughts are crossing the limit when I encourage it .
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You are supposed to have a real sexual desire for your wife. This is normal and healthy and part of a good marriage.
 
faithfultogod said:
I want to know on what situations It can be considered a sin ?
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It is definitely not a sin to have sexual desires for your wife. The only way it could be sinful is if, to use traditional jargon, there is “periculum pollutionis” or danger of pollution occurring (assuming you can guess what that refers to). When desire for your wife involves neither that nor willful masturbation it can’t be sinful.
 
Desiring your wife is normal, missing your wife is normal, telling her over the phone about your love is normal.

If it becomes phone sex, then it is a problem.
 
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