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LittleSoldier
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I’ve noticed the same thing about myself. It seems that an awful lot of people on these forums believe they can pick and choose what they like about Catholicism and they are right and everyone else is wrong. I’ve started reading some books written by people like Chesterton and some of the apologists here. That’s helped me a lot. If I believed 1 percent of what I’ve been told here, I would leave the Church.I can’t say that I dislike Catholicism. My mother, father, grandmother, and grandfather are all (or were in the case of my grandparents) GREAT Catholics and I have (or had) tremendous respect for them. My mother is a great person and goes to church every day trying to be the best Catholic that she can be. My Grandfather is probably the person I want to emulate in my life, and to me he was the quintessential Catholic. When he retired, he picked up so many volunteer jobs that he basically was still working full time but for free (many of these jobs being for Catholic institutions or Catholic churches). In my opinion, the Catholic Church shaped these people’s lives so much that I could never truly dislike the church. But, to be honest, some of the people on these forums upset me and don’t mesh with my opinions of what morality should be…BUT they quote things from the Catechism proving their point. I don’t really know what to think…I have never met a priest that I did not admire and respect though and I feel that some Catholics on here are so rigid with how they follow the Church teachings that most Catholics don’t agree with them.
I just don’t know what to think anymore. I think I might have to stop going on these forums because certain people make me believe that I don’t like Catholicism.
Sometimes I wish I could have an all-day session with an apologist and a theologian, just so I could ask about all these things that bother me. That isn’t going to happen (obviously) but I think reading books written by them will help clarify what is Church teaching and what isn’t. Because it can really be confusing at times.
God bless you!
Sancta Maria! Mater dei, ora pro nobis.