Is it moral to consider dating if...?

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Is it moral to consider dating if someone has the std hpv (genital warts)? I in a moment of profound stupidity picked it up a couple of years ago when I picked up a woman I should not have (and would not have if I did not at the time have 12 beers in me). It is controlable up to a point but i’m just not sure if I should date and end up passing it along. I’m insanly lonely and keeping busy is like treating cancer with chiken soup and asprin. Or should I just go with the flow and just let her choose whether to continue?
 
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i’m just not sure if I should date and end up passing it along.
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If you see a connection between dating and passing along an STD, you might want to reconsider what you put under ‘religion.’
 
As a female, I think that telling someone on a first date would obviously scare them away. But waiting until you are too serious would make the person very angry. So I would say date, but keep it at dating and when you feel like the moment is right tell the person. Also, you are going to have to realize you will be rejected by many woman because of this. I would say to know all the facts, and be able to inform the woman on what her chances of contracting it are, etc. I would suggest that you also hold on till marriage to have sex again. Is your condition something that will not clear itself up? I have heard that some types of hpv go away on their own overtime.

Continue to pray… God has a plan for you!
 
It would be immoral not to tell them, very grave in fact if any contact happens. This does not mean you need to tell them on the 1st date of course.
 
jpk1313 said:
Is it moral to consider dating if someone has the std hpv (genital warts)? I in a moment of profound stupidity picked it up a couple of years ago when I picked up a woman I should not have (and would not have if I did not at the time have 12 beers in me). It is controlable up to a point but i’m just not sure if I should date and end up passing it along. I’m insanly lonely and keeping busy is like treating cancer with chiken soup and asprin. Or should I just go with the flow and just let her choose whether to continue?
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All my suspicions about you have now been realized from this post.
You clearly are in ‘wonderland’ and have no place causing mischief on this site.
 
Brutal! Perhaps you should look into an STD date-match website (stdmatch.net). I would think that if any woman knew in foresight that you had such a disease, they would not want to get to know you to the point of wondering if they ought to stay involved. On the other hand, such prejudices as are carried by people who are worried about contracting an STD may be unfounded. Certainly there are sound methods to avoid the spread of the disease, even in intimacy. I wouldn’t say it’s a violation of morality to keep such a thing a secret for some time, so much as it would be a violation of her expectations (but then, there are always violations of what we expect getting into a new relationship)
 
First, don’t have sex before marriage. Second, meet a girl, court her, and when your getting open to the idea of marriage, tell her that you have HPV and you need her to get the vaccine. There is nothing alarming about having HPV–most people do–what is alarming is your insistence that premarital sex is unavoidable.

If you chose to have premarital sex and believe the truth of Catholicism, spreading HPV is not your biggest problem.
 
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First, don’t have sex before marriage. Second, meet a girl, court her, and when your getting open to the idea of marriage, tell her that you have HPV and you need her to get the vaccine. There is nothing alarming about having HPV–most people do–what is alarming is your insistence that premarital sex is unavoidable.

If you chose to have premarital sex and believe the truth of Catholicism, spreading HPV is not your biggest problem.
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I think you gave him an excellent answer. I had been wondering who should get this vaccine and you just showed me the situation in which it should be used.
 
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