The responsibility is obviously far greater when children are being adopted.
I’m sorry, you’re not being clear (although we can all see where you’re trying to go with this). Whose responsibility is far greater when a child is being adopted?
If it’s the person who is putting the child up for adoption then he or she would need to be sure that the prospective parents were living in a stable, loving environment and would have the child’s best interests at heart.
If it’s the prospective parents, then they’d have a responsibility to care and protect the child and not to do anything that could cause harm to him or her.
In both cases one might consider the criteria to be mostly fullfilled if the two parents were, I don’t know, happily married?
What else do you think we might need to know about them? Do you think the type of sex they might have would be worth knowing? If you were in charge of putting the child out for adoption, would you ask the prospective couple if they have anal sex?