Is it normal to feel anxious before getting married?

[Francis3]

Don’t marry him anytime soon. He let you down once already. If you let him talk you into another chance he will let you down again. It’s human nature. It is a passive agressive way of controlling you. And half of those who cohabitate before marriage divorce. Save yourself a lot of grief, and at least insist on waiting long enough to see how things go while living apart. If he loves you he will wait

 

[alice24]

But now there is something missed that i have no idea whether I can get it back or not.

Then wait until you are sure, there´s no rush. Don´t move in together, you won´t be that free to watch your feelings and make a right decision for you when you two live together - because you will make decision for both of you. This should be left for marriage. Done this, been there, wasn´t a good idea - if he won´t wait for you, he´s not the right spouse.
Don´t be afraid, whatever you decide, there´s a way.

 

[Irishmom2]

Trust your feelings, not his. If it doesn’t feel right to you, it isn’t.