Is it objectively meaningful and functionally correct to class Same Sex Attraction as a genuine form of human Sexuality?

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This whole thread is based on the assumption that there is an objective moral code. Sorry but that doesn’t exist…
If thats true, then the term homophobic is meaningless if its intended to describe true immoral behavior. Your whole world view is circular, self defeating and meaningless. Its not true that you support moral truth or moral rights. You don’t really care about the intrinsic value of those people who have SSA. You merely support what ever happens to appeal to your agenda, and your agenda is to break down the moral value of the church so as to silence its influence on your life. What greater dream is there for an atheist than to have people believe that you have a higher moral understanding than a church which commands your obedience to a lifestyle you don’t want. You seek out popular opinions against the church, specifically opinions which have the appearance of a moral high ground. To this end, you call out insulting names to those who point out your deluded position on what defines moral rights. You insist by your insults and aim to imply that you truly have the moral high ground, when at the same time asserting that such grounds do not exist!!!. Thats deceptive behavior; something that people do when they want to run away from the objective truth.

Your full of contradictions. Moral truth either exists or it doesn’t. You can’t just keep calling people immoral, while at the same time saying immorality doesn’t exist if you expect people to acknowledge your statements as moral facts.

In so far as your naturalistic world view is concerned you are just a deluded organism, irrationally conveying your emotions, adding nothing of any moral significance to the debate.
 
Okay, I will. But doesn’t America have same sex tolerance laws? What sort of reverse discrimination is happening in your country?
Not very observant, are we! :rolleyes:
If America was a tolerant, good place, then there would have been no need for a Civil Rights era and desegregation, because blacks would have been considered equal from the start.
Are you serious? :eek:
OK, some history on slavery - slavery was only sanctioned in North America by the Virginia Statutes of of the 1600s. Until then, slavery was a convenient way landholders could get cheap labour after the supply of indentured labour from England dried up. The first Statute that treated black slaves as being different was a Virginia Statute of 1650, which forbade them the right to bear arms. In 1662 those born to slaves were deemed to be slaves. In 1667 it was decreed that Christian baptism did not make a slave free. Up until then, European convention held that Christians could not be slaves. In 1705 it was decreed in Virginia that if a slave owner killed a slave while admonishing him, there was no crime. You can read the Virginia Statutes here. Over time, the laws became more and more oppressive in the southern states.
Come forward to the 1800s and focus on Thomas Jefferson. He was born into a slave owning family and society, yet he obhorred it. He spent most of his life fighting against slavery. In 1815 he wrote the following -
Where the disease [slavery] is most deeply seated, there it will be slowest in eradication. In the northern States, it was merely superficial and easily corrected. In the southern, it is incorporated with the whole system and requires time, patience, and perseverance in the curative process.
He recognised that vested interests had made slavery an indispensible part of the southern economy and lifestyle. The largely agrarian southern states had a vested interest in maintaining slave labour. The more industrialised north did not. The emancipation movement began in the mid 1700s and yet it took nearly a hundred years to come to fruition, because vested interests fought the proposal. Read about Somersetts Case, in which Britains Lord Chief Justice Mansfield wrote that -
The state of slavery is of such a nature, that it is incapable of being introduced on any reasons, moral or political; but only positive law, which preserves its force long after the reasons, occasion, and time itself from whence it was created, is erased from memory: it’s so odious, that nothing can be suffered to support it, but positive law.
Note how he wrote of Positive Law. He differentiated Natural Law from man made, or Positive Law, which is either legislation, decree, or custom. mansfield knew that vested interests stood to lose large amounts of money with his ruling, yet he over ruled custom by asserting Natural Law reasoning. Still, it took nearly a hundred more years before the Natural Law argument won out.
Have you considered the idea that your understanding of Natural Law is wrong? How do you know that equal rights for gays is not a part of Natural Law?
Equal rights for gays is indeed part of Natural Law. Just as it is for Negroes and anyone else. Gays currently have the same rights and privelidges everyone else has before the law. The thing is, they wish to overide Natural law to win something which goes beyong simple equality.
How can equal rights for gays overthrow Natural Law? Doesn’t NL exist regardless of whether it is put into place or not? So why does it matter if for example, gay marriage becomes legal in America? Did slavery overthrow NL?
natural Law overthrew slavery. Now, gays wish to overthrow natural Law morality to get what they want. Enshrining the right to “marry” in legislation means overturning the definition of marriage as being between a man and a woman and ‘normalising’ same sex acts and unions which can never be considered as being ‘normal’ according to Natural Moral Law. In fact, same sex acts are not, have never been and can never be the “equal” of heterosexual sex acts. Hence the debate…
If you’re right, gay marriage will still be wrong. And you can keep on holding that opinion, it’s just that gays and their supporters won’t care.
Gay “marriage” will always be wrong in an objective sense, regardless of what laws are written. Just as slavery was wrong, regardless of what customs, decrees and Statutes were written.
 
If thats true, then the term homophobic is meaningless if its intended to describe true immoral behavior. Your whole world view is circular, self defeating and meaningless. Its not true that you support moral truth or moral rights. You don’t really care about the intrinsic value of those people who have SSA. You merely support what ever happens to appeal to your agenda, and your agenda is to break down the moral value of the church so as to silence its influence on your life. What greater dream is there for an atheist than to have people believe that you have a higher moral understanding than a church which commands your obedience to a lifestyle you don’t want. You seek out popular opinions against the church, specifically opinions which have the appearance of a moral high ground. To this end, you call out insulting names to those who point out your deluded position on what defines moral rights. You insist by your insults and aim to imply that you truly have the moral high ground, when at the same time asserting that such grounds do not exist!!!. Thats deceptive behavior; something that people do when they want to run away from the objective truth.

Your full of contradictions. Moral truth either exists or it doesn’t. You can’t just keep calling people immoral, while at the same time saying immorality doesn’t exist if you expect people to acknowledge your statements as moral facts.

In so far as your naturalistic world view is concerned you are just a deluded organism, irrationally conveying your emotions, adding nothing of any moral significance to the debate.
Well said! 👍
 
If thats true, then the term homophobic is meaningless if its intended to describe true immoral behavior.
No because we as humans determine morality and in our day and age it is considered as discrimination to discriminate against active homosexuals. Certain Christians still use their religion as an excuse to do it anyway although society condemns it.
MindOverMatter2;8470761:
Your whole world view is circular, self defeating and meaningless. Its not true that you support moral truth as an objective statement about people actions; you merely support what ever appeals to your tastes, and you call out insulting names (as if you truly have the moral high ground, when at the same time asserting that such grounds do not exist!!!
) to whoever doesn’t agree with your tastes. Thats deceptive behavior; something that people do when they want to run away from the objective truth.

That’s your opinion. I have my opinion.
Your full of contradictions. Moral truth either exists or it doesn’t. You can’t just keep calling people immoral, while at the same time saying immorality doesn’t exist if you expect people to acknowledge your statements as moral facts.
I never said immorality doesn’t exist. Maybe you should understand what I write before you make assumptions. I said that morality is defined by man. 200 hundred years ago you wouldn’t have had any problem to own slaves. You wouldn’t have any problem to kill a homosexual. You wouldn’t have had any problem that women can’t vote and that a man tells a women what to do because those were the moral values of the time. Do you think any slave owner felt guilty by an objective natural law? Do you think the Catholic Spaniards felt remorse for slaughtering the indigenous population? No, according to them the indigenous people were savages you treat like animals.
In so far as your naturalistic world view is concerned you are just a deluded organism, irrationally conveying your emotions, adding nothing of any moral significance to the debate.
Go ahead with your insults. Your whole purpose of this thread is to prove that homosexuality is objectively wrong and people like me who are pro-gay rights are just people who annoy your world view.

It just goes to show how intolerant many people are when you don’t agree with them.
 
This just goes to show your failure to reason properly.
Your reasoning shows me what kind a person YOU are, just like your other topics “What Moral Right Does An Atheist Have?”

If I say the Government(made by people) decides what laws there are and I then say murder is against the law, I contradict myself…hm, interesting.

I don’t see any difference in saying society decides what moral laws there are and saying racism or homosexual discrimination is immoral.
 
That’s your whole answer? What’s your personal attitude toward active gay people? Just curious where you’re coming from.
I think that some gay people honestly believe that SSA is their sexual identity; and i understand why they think that. People with SSA are just people like heterosexuals. They fall in love, and some want children. Its consensual which is good. In general, if we ignore the fact of gender, its evident that there are good things which happen in a committed gay relationship, in terms of commitment to somebody you love. In that respect its even possible to point out aspects of a gay relationship that puts some heterosexual relationships to shame. Having or acting on heterosexual attractions doesn’t mean that you’re a good person. So, do i hate gay people, or think that they are disgusting just because i see them kissing or holding hands? No i do not. Do i think its disordered behavior? Yes i do.

Do i have a reason to think its a disorder? Yes, because it stops people from expressing the true identity of their gender and nature. Just like being attracted to animals or small children is dysfunctional of our true sexual nature, so to is SSA. In the case of SSA, Its a dysfunction specifically of their gender in the sense that it destroys its true expression, and thus leads to relationships that do not respect or fulfill the intrinsic value of being a man or a women. The fact that they are unable to express their attraction according to their gender shows the characteristics of a disorder, that something went wrong in their development, just like being born with no legs or arms is representative of something going wrong in human development, or any other genetic disorder. This is the only reason i reject homosexuality as an ideology and a lifestyle.
 
I think that some gay people honestly believe that SSA is their sexual identity; and i understand why they think that. People with SSA are just people like heterosexuals. They fall in love, and some want children. Its consensual which is good. In general, if we ignore the fact of gender, its evident that there are good things which happen in a committed gay relationship, in terms of commitment to somebody you love. In that respect its even possible to point out aspects of a gay relationship that puts some heterosexual relationships to shame. Having or acting on heterosexual attractions doesn’t mean that you’re a good person. So, do i hate gay people, or think that they are disgusting just because i see them kissing or holding hands? No i do not. Do i think its disordered behavior? Yes i do.

Do i have a reason to think its a disorder? Yes, because it stops people from expressing the true identity of their gender and nature. Just like being attracted to animals or small children is dysfunctional of our true sexual nature, so to is SSA. In the case of SSA, Its a dysfunction specifically of their gender in the sense that it destroys its true expression, and thus leads to relationships that do not respect or fulfill the intrinsic value of being a man or a women. The fact that they are unable to express their attraction according to their gender shows the characteristics of a disorder, that something went wrong in their development, just like being born with no legs or arms is representative of something going wrong in human development, or any other genetic disorder. This is the only reason i reject homosexuality as an ideology and a lifestyle.
Whilst I can see where you’re coming from here, I still think this assessment is based upon a very narrow, strictly functional view of human sexuality. Of course everyone knows that homosexual sex cannot result in pregnancy. But so what? Why is the ‘intrinsic’ value of being a man or a woman bound to reproduction? That’s a bit like saying there’s not more to our lives than sex. And do you reject celibacy as an ‘ideology’ or a lifestyle for the same reason?
 
Your reasoning shows me what kind a person YOU are, just like your other topics “What Moral Right Does An Atheist Have?”

If I say the Government(made by people) decides what laws there are and I then say murder is against the law, I contradict myself…hm, interesting.

I don’t see any difference in saying society decides what moral laws there are and saying racism or homosexual discrimination is immoral.
What you are saying does not make any sense; its just an arbitrary claim that doesn’t truly justify your position. Its ridiculous and naive to claim that right and wrong is what the government says it is, as if they are some kind of infallible divine entity. If, for the sake of argument, the government suddenly over turned prior laws, and said that its okay to dispose of a new born baby, would that really make it morally acceptable? Are you really that desperate to flee from the embrace of reason?
 
Do i have a reason to think its a disorder? Yes, because it stops people from expressing the true identity of their gender and nature. Just like being attracted to animals or small children is dysfunctional of our true sexual nature, so to is SSA. In the case of SSA, Its a dysfunction specifically of their gender in the sense that it destroys its true expression, and thus leads to relationships that do not respect or fulfill the intrinsic value of being a man or a women. The fact that they are unable to express their attraction according to their gender shows the characteristics of a disorder, that something went wrong in their development,
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Well said.
 
But so what? Why is the ‘intrinsic’ value of being a man or a woman bound to reproduction?
The value of being a man and a women is tied to the gift of being able to create new life within a loving and life-long committed relationship. Intimacy between a man and a women as an expression of love for one another is a good thing, but it is not the primary purpose or reason for why we are men and women. Creating new life and developing that life to express love and goodness, is a form of worship to the creator. Bringing new people in to God and bringing them up to serve love, creating more children along the way, so that they to can be with the creator expressing love in heaven forever and ever is the purpose.
That’s a bit like saying there’s not more to our lives than sex. And do you reject celibacy as an ‘ideology’ or a lifestyle for the same reason?
Celibacy, as an arbitrary act, is a selfish act, and does not conform to your nature. But just like duty as a soldier at war may take you away from family or the possibility of having one, it is so that celibacy to better serve the will of God in cases where the function of your service makes it inappropriate to have a family, can justify your not marrying and having children. While this prevents the good of the marital act, a greater good of service absolves the person from the sin of selfishness. Attraction becomes selfish, and therefore immoral, when it prevents the greater good and value of your gender. Thus acting on same sex attraction is immoral. Celibacy is correct in cases where a greater evil may occur if one engages in a relationship.
 
Well educated people care about details, specifics, and accuracies, not “sarcastic exaggeration” as a point of argument, nor your frequent generalities and “guesses.”

Then you failed to understand the poster who addressed you in that way. He was telling you that your subjective opinion cannot be generalized to the topic of the thread, because your subjective opinion is off-topic from the thread title.
That’s called a hyperbole which is a rhetorical device to convey strong feelings
I’m not even going to answer to this stupidity.

Yeah right, but saying active homosexuality is a perverted disorder because the Teaching of the Catholic Church says so is an OBJECTIVE opinion:rolleyes:

To quote myself:

To answer myself: no one.
That is out of order
You seem to be an expert on gay sex. Why is that?

Blacks are about 13% of US society. Their civil rights movement got plenty of media attention. What you are complaining about is simply the press covering social change. What should they cover? The political debate is legitimate, as the courts have confirmed. It is an issue for us to come to terms with as a society. The Church may express its opinion, as well may the gay lobby and every citizen. Why does this disturb you? This is the American political process. Do you reject that?
Ha!

And of course they were lead by a guy who massively plagiarized his doctoral thesis. Yes that was a red herring.
Islam does not embrace natural law which is why its law system is so capricious in nature.
The majority of the white people in the South were morally wrong, this one dude named Bobby Kennedy and his brother John shoved the correct natural law based morality down their throats.
I think that some gay people honestly believe that SSA is their sexual identity; and i understand why they think that. People with SSA are just people like heterosexuals. They fall in love, and some want children. Its consensual which is good. In general, if we ignore the fact of gender, its evident that there are good things which happen in a committed gay relationship, in terms of commitment to somebody you love. In that respect its even possible to point out aspects of a gay relationship that puts some heterosexual relationships to shame. Having or acting on heterosexual attractions doesn’t mean that you’re a good person. So, do i hate gay people, or think that they are disgusting just because i see them kissing or holding hands? No i do not. Do i think its disordered behavior? Yes i do.

Do i have a reason to think its a disorder? Yes, because it stops people from expressing the true identity of their gender and nature. Just like being attracted to animals or small children is dysfunctional of our true sexual nature, so to is SSA. In the case of SSA, Its a dysfunction specifically of their gender in the sense that it destroys its true expression, and thus leads to relationships that do not respect or fulfill the intrinsic value of being a man or a women. The fact that they are unable to express their attraction according to their gender shows the characteristics of a disorder, that something went wrong in their development, just like being born with no legs or arms is representative of something going wrong in human development, or any other genetic disorder. This is the only reason i reject homosexuality as an ideology and a lifestyle.
The Church has only called the inclination towards homosexual acts as disordered, loving someone of the same sex has not in fact been labelled as disordered nor is it a sin (as far as I can tell).
The value of being a man and a women is tied to the gift of being able to create new life within a loving and life-long committed relationship. Intimacy between a man and a women as an expression of love for one another is a good thing, but it is not the primary purpose or reason for why we are men and women. Creating new life and developing that life to express love and goodness, is a form of worship to the creator. Bringing new people in to God and bringing them up to serve love, creating more children along the way, so that they to can be with the creator expressing love in heaven forever and ever is the purpose.

Celibacy, as an arbitrary act, is a selfish act, and does not conform to your nature. But just like duty as a soldier at war may take you away from family or the possibility of having one, it is so that celibacy to better serve the will of God in cases where the function of your service makes it inappropriate to have a family, can justify your not marrying and having children. While this prevents the good of the marital act, a greater good of service absolves the person from the sin of selfishness. Attraction becomes selfish, and therefore immoral, when it prevents the greater good and value of your gender. Thus acting on same sex attraction is immoral. Celibacy is correct in cases where a greater evil may occur if one engages in a relationship.
Paul basically said everyone should be celibate, but for the people who are too weak there is marriage…
 
Paul basically said everyone should be celibate, but for the people who are too weak there is marriage…
If he made the claim for arbitrary reasons, then what he said was false. But knowing Paul, depending on the context, he probably felt he had good reasons for saying that; reasons which you have failed to mention. Which makes me wonder if you really grasp anything Paul says. Paul also implied that you should be good to your slave master. I think interpretation is the key here.

In any case, despite what Paul said, the church promotes marriage and rejects slavery.
 
The Church has only called the inclination towards homosexual acts as disordered, loving someone of the same sex has not in fact been labeled as disordered nor is it a sin (as far as I can tell).
You really must read what i say properly. Being in love, and acting on that love, is two different things. Engaging in the kind of behavior, that belongs in a marriage between a man and a women, with the same sex, is to behave in a manner that does not truly express the intrinsic meaning or value of your gender identity. Expressing that meaning is what we are called to do by God.

Now you can argue what type of behavior is appropriate between same sex friends (is it okay to give your friend a peck on the lips for example), but that discussion is for another thread and does not belong here.
 
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