Is it ok or a sin? I am unsure about this

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Me and my boyfriend met online a couple days ago and we r both virgins he is a Christian and lives in New Jersey and works in a Christian nursing home and is 23 years old

The question I have is he wants to text dirty and he says it is a learning experience for both of us and he also says we r not disobeying god but I think we are

Is this ok or a sin? I am unsure
 
Hunny, you met him a few days ago and already he wants dirty texts?
None of these are good signs, he’s takin’ you for a ride and is clearly bad news, but you know this, or else you wouldn’t be asking here. 🙂

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Don’t do it. You know in your heart it is wrong, and you are worth waiting for!

You would be encouraging lust, which is sinful, and I am sorry that your boyfriend is trying to dishonor you in this way. 😦

Since you only met him online a couple of days ago, and he’s already asking for sex (just in words instead of physically), that puts up a huge red flag for me. What will he ask for in a week? A month? A year?

I would say you should seriously consider whether this is really the type of guy you want to date. I can almost guarantee that his requests will get worse, not better. If it was me, I would dump him immediately, and not encourage him in any way to continue to have contact with you. No matter how great a girl you are, it’s not likely that he will change for you if this is the type of thing he wants before he hardly even knows you.

There are plenty of real men who can treat you much better, and will not ask you to violate your honor for their cheap thrill.
 
Popefrancisfan said:
Me and my boyfriend met online a couple days ago and we r both virgins he is a Christian and lives in New Jersey and works in a Christian nursing home and is 23 years old

The question I have is he wants to text dirty and he says it is a learning experience for both of us and he also says we r not disobeying god but I think we are

Is this ok or a sin? I am unsure
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How old are you? You gave his age, but not yours. Not that it matters, it is wrong no matter what age, but I would think a 20-something would know.

If you just started chatting online a few days ago, it isn’t wise to give out your number. Heck, don’t ever give out your number to strangers online, EVER.

He shouldn’t be your boyfriend if you just started talk on the computer days ago. You don’t know the guy, at all.
 
It is wrong and your boyfriend should not be asking you to do this at all. Sadly, people how are involved with this kind of sexting are doing it with more than one person, just look at Anthony Weiner and ask yourself if you want to end up married to a guy like that? Maybe he is a physical virgin but this is an unhealthy sign here and a red flag and you may need to rethink this relationship and be willing to move on.
 
Popefrancisfan said:
Me and my boyfriend met online a couple days ago and we r both virgins he is a Christian and lives in New Jersey and works in a Christian nursing home and is 23 years old

The question I have is he wants to text dirty and he says it is a learning experience for both of us and he also says we r not disobeying god but I think we are

Is this ok or a sin? I am unsure
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Report him to the police. He may be an online predator. He is definitely not your boy friend.
 
Ewwww! Don’t communicate with males who want you to sext them, especially after a few days! He’s clearly a pervert and he is NOT your boyfriend. How old are you? It doesn’t sound like you are ready for internet generated romance.
 
Popefrancisfan said:
Me and my boyfriend met online a couple days ago and we r both virgins he is a Christian and lives in New Jersey and works in a Christian nursing home and is 23 years old

The question I have is he wants to text dirty and he says it is a learning experience for both of us and he also says we r not disobeying god but I think we are

Is this ok or a sin? I am unsure
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Ask your father or mother about it.:rolleyes:
 
Popefrancisfan said:
Me and my boyfriend met online a couple days ago and we r both virgins he is a Christian and lives in New Jersey and works in a Christian nursing home and is 23 years old

The question I have is he wants to text dirty and he says it is a learning experience for both of us and he also says we r not disobeying god but I think we are

Is this ok or a sin? I am unsure
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Yes, it is a learning experience, but not a good one! I would advise that neither of you participate in this activity.
 
Popefrancisfan said:
Me and my boyfriend met online a couple days ago and we r both virgins he is a Christian and lives in New Jersey and works in a Christian nursing home and is 23 years old

The question I have is he wants to text dirty and he says it is a learning experience for both of us and he also says we r not disobeying god but I think we are

Is this ok or a sin? I am unsure
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It is not ok. It is against chastity and purity. All that goes against chastity and purity is mortal sin. Ask an Opus Dei priest and he will tell you the same. Stop the dirty talk because that’s not out of love, that’s lust. And lust is one of the seven capital sins.
 
you’re in elementary school?
you have a 23 year old boyfriend?

can you just stay in school and enjoy your studies?
:banghead:
 
What? I just don’t even . . . :ehh:

Ok, assuming the off chance that this is legit: Honey child, do yourself a favor and just get off the internet for awhile. Go read some books or talk to your friends or anything else. There are terrible people on the internet, and if you’re in elementary school and your boyfriend is 23, then he’s a pedophile and you need to get away from him right now before something bad happens to you.

Ugh. When I was in elementary school, the only things I cared about were horses, computer games, and books.
 
Just two months ago you were asking about being a bi-sexual and going on a date with your friend and her boyfriend.

I am guessing you didn’t do that.

Don’t do* this* either. *This *being trolling the site.
 
Popefrancisfan said:
I am 21 years old
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Popefrancisfan said:
I have a problem. my friend from elementary school asked me if i wanted to be biesexual and date her boyfriend with her!! What do i do?
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Uhuh. You’re a 21 year old who has a boyfriend who only 2 months ago asked about becoming bisexual to date your elementary school friends boyfriend with her. :rolleyes:

So you’re a 21 year old man with a boyfriend and you like to get chummy with elementary school girls.

Please stop trolling.
 
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