Is it ok to let my children "play mass" at home?

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Thank you everyone for sharing your memories and offering such nice encouragement!!

By the way I did buy my mini-mass kit from the ā€˜hardcore’ one that was mentioned in the posts - Our Fathers House -RELIGIOUS EDUCATION and it is WONDERFUL! The items are either brass or glass (cruets, finger bowl and votives) and are very high quality, as are the altar linens. They are also reasonably priced I think, for what you get. Our 2nd grader now wants one of the mini - vestments so we are getting it for him as part of his First Holy Communion gift. It’s a small price to pay to foster our boys’ faith and to foster vocations at the same time.
 
OK, I am from theWest Coast (we don’t even know what a fish fry is!). Do explain to the uninitiated Dutch/Irish out here.
The Polish have a custom on Christmas where each exchange a portion of their white wafers. This wafer is called oplatek (pronounced Op-WAH-tek) and is mainly of the same ingredients as communion (except, of course, it is not consecrated.) You can probably buy this at any Polish deli or religious store.
 
I recently purchased a miniature Mass kit to teach my children about the items that are used in Mass in addition to teaching them respect and reverence (First Communion prep and altar serving). I was wondering if it is appropriate to allow my boys to also pretend to ā€œplayā€ Mass with the miniature vessels? My older siblings used to 40 years ago when they were young but I wonder if it is really appropriate to allow that.
boys, yes…girls, no
 
Not to get off topic but, I’m just curious, if the kids from the pre-Vatican II age played Mass, did they say it in Latin? :hmmm:
Could these children even properly pronounce the Latin?
Or did they read the English from a hand missal?

I know playing Mass now is easy since it is in the vernacular and not as complicated to re-enact.
 
We did in our family. I was the nun and my brother was the priest. We used Wonder bread because it really could be squished down flat. There were 8 of us, at that time, so we had enough for a whole church. We even sang the songs in make believe latin. 😃
 
Not to get off topic but, I’m just curious, if the kids from the pre-Vatican II age played Mass, did they say it in Latin? :hmmm:
Could these children even properly pronounce the Latin?
Or did they read the English from a hand missal?

I know playing Mass now is easy since it is in the vernacular and not as complicated to re-enact.
We mumbled a kid’s version of parroted Latin.

When we became altar boys, we mumbled a bigger kid’s version of parroted Latin; a little more accurate, but with no more understanding. Laetificat uventootem maeum…
 
Not to get off topic but, I’m just curious, if the kids from the pre-Vatican II age played Mass, did they say it in Latin? :hmmm:
Could these children even properly pronounce the Latin?
Or did they read the English from a hand missal?

I know playing Mass now is easy since it is in the vernacular and not as complicated to re-enact.
I don’t know if you really call it ā€œplayā€ or not, but we as servers did do a lot of practicing (with mentors) at home or in church after school. Yes, it was in Latin, but most of it was skipped focusing mainly on the rubrics.

Altar servers were expected to have at least a beginner’s exposure to Latin. We carried our little red server’s books with us all the time.
 
My sister and I used to play Mass, and I ended up at the priest cause I was the oldest.
When we saw Sound of Music, I asked my mom if the Mother Superior was the priest for Masses, and that’s when we learned about Communion services. So then we stopped playing Mass, cause I was a girl and couldn’t consecrate, and played Communion service instead. Which I would see as perfectly acceptable for girls.

Questions, though- we have vestments for boys, but where are the habits for girls? šŸ˜›
 
My cousin and I played Mass once. (Fortunately, Lutheran and Catholic services are close enough that we both knew what was going on)
 
Not to get off topic but, I’m just curious, if the kids from the pre-Vatican II age played Mass, did they say it in Latin? :hmmm:
Could these children even properly pronounce the Latin?
Or did they read the English from a hand missal?

I know playing Mass now is easy since it is in the vernacular and not as complicated to re-enact.
The PreVII kids mumbled, which is what the priest and altar boys sounded as if they were doing for the parts of priest and altar boy; the dialogue came out of a hand missal, same as every day at school, Latin, very distinct syllables and pronounced as S’ter pronounced Latin, correctly or incorrectly.

For a couple years, I couldn’t figure out why St. Susan was mentioned as a response in the Mass, as in ā€œSusan (Sursum) Cordaā€.
 
My sister and I used to play Mass, and I ended up at the priest cause I was the oldest.
When we saw Sound of Music, I asked my mom if the Mother Superior was the priest for Masses, and that’s when we learned about Communion services. So then we stopped playing Mass, cause I was a girl and couldn’t consecrate, and played Communion service instead. Which I would see as perfectly acceptable for girls.

Questions, though- we have vestments for boys, but where are the habits for girls? šŸ˜›
In the ā€œoldenā€ days, on Mission Sunday, all the Catholic schools would send medium-aged (8-10) boys and girls to Holy Name Cathedral dressed in the habits of priests and nuns. My sister was one of the privileged one year, as a Sister of Christian Charity (Mother Pauline Mallinckrodt), as was another little girl. I think the boys were Glenmary Fathers in cassocks, even though we had diocesan priests in our parish.

Otherwise, to play ā€œconventā€ requires hand towels (veils) and either blankets or leftover fabric scraps (to wrap around as habits). Dad’s big black bathrobe will also do, as will ponchos. Ponchos also serve as great vestments.
 
Just a little interesting side note; my Dad, who is 86, and his sister who is 92 went to Catholic school. They both said you learned latin in grade school, it was part of the curriculim. They both can still participate in a Latin Mass without much trouble, even after all this time.
 
The PreVII kids mumbled, which is what the priest and altar boys sounded as if they were doing for the parts of priest and altar boy; the dialogue came out of a hand missal, same as every day at school, Latin, very distinct syllables and pronounced as S’ter pronounced Latin, correctly or incorrectly.

For a couple years, I couldn’t figure out why St. Susan was mentioned as a response in the Mass, as in ā€œSusan (Sursum) Cordaā€.
Almost reminds me of the time I passed a prayer service and I thought they were singing, ā€œBringing in the cheese.ā€ 😃
 
In the ā€œoldenā€ days, on Mission Sunday, all the Catholic schools would send medium-aged (8-10) boys and girls to Holy Name Cathedral dressed in the habits of priests and nuns. My sister was one of the privileged one year, as a Sister of Christian Charity (Mother Pauline Mallinckrodt), as was another little girl. I think the boys were Glenmary Fathers in cassocks, even though we had diocesan priests in our parish.

Otherwise, to play ā€œconventā€ requires hand towels (veils) and either blankets or leftover fabric scraps (to wrap around as habits). Dad’s big black bathrobe will also do, as will ponchos. Ponchos also serve as great vestments.
I think I was there that time at the Cathedral. I remember the TV cameras being there all the time. They are still having tons of protests there, I hear. 😦
 
Almost reminds me of the time I passed a prayer service and I thought they were singing, ā€œBringing in the cheese.ā€ 😃
Or my toddler’s first attempts at the sign of the Cross - ā€œFather, Son and Holy Spearmint.ā€ 😃
 
Or my toddler’s first attempts at the sign of the Cross - ā€œFather, Son and Holy Spearmint.ā€ 😃
Can’t forget that Spearmint! My daughter hasn’t said anything adorable like that yet pout
 
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