Is it ok to say this to a man?

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I get this all the time.

At the store, in the mall, at the Mcdonald’s drive through, walking around the block.

And I usually have 4 kids in tow.

I can’t help it.🤷
 
Still searching for that story about a woman asking out a man. It’s like looking for Sasquatch. Compared to that mythic beast, telling a man he’s hot is like finding a seagull at the beach.
 
Say it! If you’re interested, let him know. Subtly. Flirt a little.

(Flirting isn’t chasing. Flirting is letting him know he can chase you 🙂 )
 
cheese_sdc said:
Yes. Be prepared for the potential consequences. 99% of guys will smile, say thank you and go about their business.

1% will think that you want to engage in bedroom activities.

Wait. 100% of mean will think you want to engage in bedroom activities. 1% will be creepy about it. 99% will smile and hope for bedroom activities. 😃

I’m a male.
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Bedroom activities??? Ahmmm noooo only a creepy guy would think like this.
I guess for me a compliment does not mean chasing but for others it does.
 
Estevao said:
Still searching for that story about a woman asking out a man. It’s like looking for Sasquatch. Compared to that mythic beast, telling a man he’s hot is like finding a seagull at the beach.
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Complementing is not asking the guy out.
 
Mayita30 said:
Complementing is not asking the guy out.
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No, it’s not. My (now) wife’s cousin once called me handsome, before we were married. My (now) wife was present. It most certainly was not “asking me out” and I was quite flattered. A compliment is a compliment. It’s nice. Women like them, so do men.

I would caution you against doing it via text though. Face to face is better.
 
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