You are arguing about that which you have zero experience in - being pregnant. I think you should stop now. Every woman who goes to an abortion clinic is torn in one way or another. There is confusion, doubt, fear, as well as joy and excitement because of the pregnancy. There is dread along with happiness. Our bodies start to change from the moment the egg is fertilized. A whole miraculous process begins and is already quite far along by the time the woman even knows that she is pregnant. Abortion cuts off this process with a traumatic surgical procedure, much like an amputation. Of course the woman has consequences. Of course even a transvaginal ultrasound given by a cruel technician is NOTHING compared to the true rape of an abortion, that kills a baby and throws a woman’s body into shock and recovery.
When a woman has herself steeled to have an abortion, we term her “abortion-minded.” This does not mean that she has freely CHOSEN to have the abortion, far from it. It is never her free choice. When a woman like this chooses instead to come and see her baby on a monitor (external US), she doesn’t know what to expect, usually. Many times PP will have told her that her pregnancy is nothing more than “a clump of cells” or a “bit of tissue.” And then she sees her baby, in recognizable form, with tiny hands, feet, and a beating heart. It is the best weapon against abortion that we have to this point, and abortionists know it. That is why they are screaming so loudly and so impotently against it.