Is it okay to have a perma-smile during the Liturgy of the Word, and if not how can I tone the joy down?

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Lately, during the entire Liturgy of the Word I cannot stop smiling. And it’s not just a small sweet little smile, I’m pretty much grinning and glowing, and this is me holding back. I want to cry and laugh and sing and I’m just going to burst with joy. No I’m not psychotic lol. Thankfully, during the liturgy of the Eucharist I lose the smiles and am looking as bored as everyone else, though I do still feel full. I’ve been trying to hold it back because everyone else looks so bored and I don’t want people to think I’m a freak but I can’t help it! It’s kind of embarrassing! On weekdays I go to Mass with 5-10 other people, and the past few times the priest has just been staring at me. I can tell he tries not to but he does stare. I don’t mind him looking at me obviously, there’s only a few people in the room, but he’ll look at everyone else and then his eyes land on me and he stares. He looks like he’s curious, but he never asks and thank God for that because I have no explanation. Outside of Mass I’m not a bubbly happy type of lady. I’m pretty normal. So I’ve started sitting behind everyone else so that at least I’m not a distraction. Help!
Why? What’s wrong with smiling? Just don’t make a scene (Hallelujah! Praaaiiiiise the LOORRD! Amen brother, go preachhit! AYYYMEN! HHALeLUUUjah).

Maybe God’s Word just has that effect on you just as sometimes the Eucharist has its own special effect on people.
 
Why? What’s wrong with smiling? Just don’t make a scene (Hallelujah! Praaaiiiiise the LOORRD! Amen brother, go preachhit! AYYYMEN! HHALeLUUUjah).
That cracked me right up. But that is pretty much how I feel, but I hold that in. Way too disruptive for Mass. It’s ironic because the seeking emotion thing that I found in a lot of protestant churches is one of the things I originally loved about Catholicism. It’s a quiet, reverent spirituality. Haha, now I’m full of joy. ❤️ :extrahappy: ❤️
Maybe God’s Word just has that effect on you just as sometimes the Eucharist has its own special effect on people.
Maybe. I was talking to some cradle Catholics about protestants and they were saying that in a way protestants don’t know Jesus, at least not as well as Catholics, because they’ve never met him face to face in the Eucharist. I find that very difficult to understand because even though I feel in awe almost during the consecration, I can’t say I’ve ever felt a difference between taking communion in a Catholic church and taking communion in the protestant church I grew up in (I don’t take communion at protestant churches anymore, of course). I don’t really know what they mean by meeting Jesus in the Eucharist. I dunno why. 🤷
 
What’s wrong with it?

You’ve been given a grace. Continue loving God and His word.
 
Maybe. I was talking to some cradle Catholics about protestants and they were saying that in a way protestants don’t know Jesus, at least not as well as Catholics, because they’ve never met him face to face in the Eucharist. I find that very difficult to understand because even though I feel in awe almost during the consecration, I can’t say I’ve ever felt a difference between taking communion in a Catholic church and taking communion in the protestant church I grew up in (I don’t take communion at protestant churches anymore, of course). I don’t really know what they mean by meeting Jesus in the Eucharist. I dunno why. 🤷
It is impossible to know whether someone else has met Christ. I think some confuse the Lord’s promise that He will be in the Eucharist with the assumption that He cannot be anywhere else but there. I have of late grown in appreciation for the wisdom of an old Orthodox friend of mine - “We do not say where the Holy Spirit is not, only that He is most fully here.”

“Wherever two or three are gathered in My name, there I am in the midst of them.”

And, “Draw near to God and He will draw near to You.” James 4:8 The Lord isn’t sitting there wagging His fingers at people who aren’t Catholic, saying, "Nope, not until you come to me in exactly this particular way will you find me. Thankfully the Good Shepherd goes out and finds us where we are. 🙂
 
Hi Lily Pearls,

I can only echo what others have said. This is a great blessing. Joy is a gift of the Holy Spirit and, to quote Leon Bloy, "an infallible sign of God’s presence,.” I’d celebrate it with Him in silence.
 
What’s wrong with it?

You’ve been given a grace. Continue loving God and His word.
From the responses I’ve been getting here I’d say nothing is wrong with it. I just didn’t want to be disrespectful or something during Mass and I want to fit in.
I have of late grown in appreciation for the wisdom of an old Orthodox friend of mine - “We do not say where the Holy Spirit is not, only that He is most fully here.”
That is beautiful!
 
From the responses I’ve been getting here I’d say nothing is wrong with it. I just didn’t want to be disrespectful or something during Mass and I want to fit in.

That is beautiful!
Of course there is nothing wrong with it. It most likely is the Holy Spirit pouring His grace into you. I’ve had experiences like this–why deny the Holy Spirit?? This is a blessing. Thank God for it.

And don’t pay attention to the naysayers–this is between you and God, not you and them.
 
Of course there is nothing wrong with it. It most likely is the Holy Spirit pouring His grace into you. I’ve had experiences like this–why deny the Holy Spirit?? This is a blessing. Thank God for it.

And don’t pay attention to the naysayers–this is between you and God, not you and them.
If you don’t mind sharing, what were your experiences like this like?
 
What’s wrong with being excited about hearing the Word of God? Or watching the consecration? Or passing the peace? Or the Love of God? Or??? Enjoy your joy! 😃
 
Of course it’s not wrong. Mass is a celebration. It’s supposed to be joyful. You are celebrating that you are free from the chains of death. If that is not a cause to smile, then nothing is.
I understand what you’re saying, Mass is a celebration and we should be so happy to be free from the chains of death, but grinning and bubbling with joy during Mass is like grinning and bubbling with joy at the foot of the Cross. Is that really appropriate?? Mass is the memorial of a death, and not just any death but Jesus Christ’s. Is it really appropriate to be joyful at an occasion like that? I don’t think so.
 
There is a woman who is so joyful at mass because she is happy to be there. It makes me happy to be there too. Smile on you don’t know who is infected with your joy.
 
I understand what you’re saying, Mass is a celebration and we should be so happy to be free from the chains of death, but grinning and bubbling with joy during Mass is like grinning and bubbling with joy at the foot of the Cross. Is that really appropriate?? Mass is the memorial of a death, and not just any death but Jesus Christ’s. Is it really appropriate to be joyful at an occasion like that? I don’t think so.
This is a very one-sided take on the re-presentation of the Sacrifice of Calvary. Mass is not a mourn-fest; it is indeed joyful. At Mass, his Death, Resurrection, Ascension and Coming Again in Glory are all made present. At Mass, the entire mystery of our salvation is made present and Christ is present, entire and alive on the altar. Why would this not be a source of great joy? At Mass, we are indeed at Calvary, but we are also in heaven, along with the heavenly host where the joy is unending and the Lamb is standing alive but as if slain. Even in heaven his death is present but no one’s sad over it. The host of heaven in fact never stops singing to the Lamb who was slain. It’s not only appropriate, it is proper to be joyful.
 
I totally agree Porthos11. In my understanding, the basic point of the mass (the consecration) is the death and RESURRECTION of Jesus. Jesus died to give us life, and he gives us that life again and again in the Eucharist - He doesn’t give us His death - He gives us His life, so that we will be able to live forever in heaven with Him. It is definitely not a sad occasion. He takes our human death and gives us His eternal Life. If anyone is not happy about that well - it is the way God intended it. 😉
 
You are clearly very conscious of your selfhood thought the Mass if you know you have what you call a perma smile. I would find you quite disconcerting
 
You are clearly very conscious of your selfhood thought the Mass if you know you have what you call a perma smile. I would find you quite disconcerting
How could I be unaware of a perma-smile even if I’m not focusing on myself during Mass? My face eventually starts hurting.
 
LilyPearl,

It’s perfectly fine to be smiling during mass, please continue to do so and don’t worry about the expressions of the others around you. There’s nothing wrong with beaming with delight during the liturgy - it’s supposed to be a celebration, after all. :D:D:D
 
Your face hurts? You are describing something approaching religious ecstasy. Quite frankly I find this whole thing so utterly self indulgent. The question posed could easily have been ‘is it ok for me to be much more religious and appreciate of everything than all the other people at mass who aren’t in rapture’. Daft
 
Your face hurts? You are describing something approaching religious ecstasy. Quite frankly I find this whole thing so utterly self indulgent. The question posed could easily have been ‘is it ok for me to be much more religious and appreciate of everything than all the other people at mass who aren’t in rapture’. Daft
Wow it seems I’ve really offended you. I really didn’t intend any judgement on anyone else at Mass. Because of what I can see other people doing, how the priest responds to me and my person experience of feeling joy and a constant smile, I would have to have my head in the sand to not realize that I’m acting differently than others. I know it doesn’t mean they’re doing anything wrong. I’m sorry I offended you, I’ll try to watch my wording next time. I don’t know what religious ecstasy feels like, what I feel is full of joy and imo those are two different things.
 
=LilyPearls;10310105]Lately, during the entire Liturgy of the Word I cannot stop smiling. And it’s not just a small sweet little smile, I’m pretty much grinning and glowing, and this is me holding back. I want to cry and laugh and sing and I’m just going to burst with joy. No I’m not psychotic lol. Thankfully, during the liturgy of the Eucharist I lose the smiles and am looking as bored as everyone else, though I do still feel full. I’ve been trying to hold it back because everyone else looks so bored and I don’t want people to think I’m a freak but I can’t help it! It’s kind of embarrassing! On weekdays I go to Mass with 5-10 other people, and the past few times the priest has just been staring at me. I can tell he tries not to but he does stare. I don’t mind him looking at me obviously, there’s only a few people in the room, but he’ll look at everyone else and then his eyes land on me and he stares. He looks like he’s curious, but he never asks and thank God for that because I have no explanation. Outside of Mass I’m not a bubbly happy type of lady. I’m pretty normal. So I’ve started sitting behind everyone else so that at least I’m not a distraction. Help!
GO FOR IT!

It’s a GRACE from God

You DO GET it:D

Be filled with AWE; Reverance and Joy!

It is Jesus; IT REALLY IS JESUS👍 😃

Don’t worry about others. This is YOUR time with YOUR God. AMEN!
 
Lately, during the entire Liturgy of the Word I cannot stop smiling. And it’s not just a small sweet little smile, I’m pretty much grinning and glowing, and this is me holding back. I want to cry and laugh and sing and I’m just going to burst with joy. No I’m not psychotic lol. Thankfully, during the liturgy of the Eucharist I lose the smiles and am looking as bored as everyone else, though I do still feel full. I’ve been trying to hold it back because everyone else looks so bored and I don’t want people to think I’m a freak but I can’t help it! It’s kind of embarrassing! On weekdays I go to Mass with 5-10 other people, and the past few times the priest has just been staring at me. I can tell he tries not to but he does stare. I don’t mind him looking at me obviously, there’s only a few people in the room, but he’ll look at everyone else and then his eyes land on me and he stares. He looks like he’s curious, but he never asks and thank God for that because I have no explanation. Outside of Mass I’m not a bubbly happy type of lady. I’m pretty normal. So I’ve started sitting behind everyone else so that at least I’m not a distraction. Help!
**Don’t. This is the HOLY SPIRIT speaking. Please, don’t tone it down. You aren’t a freak. Loads of people all express emotions at the Holy SACRIFICE. Some break into tears of contrition at times (Me), Some break into tears of Joy at being able to recieve Our LORD in the MOST HOLY EUCHARIST, and Some are beside themselves with Joy. Unless You are being a distraction, I would not tone it down, but thank the HOLY SPIRIT for giving me the spirit of Joy and Consolation!! 👍

GOD and Man are SUPPOSED to be Intimate. What happens during sex for example, is what Our Prayer life with Our LORD should be like. The actual physical part of sex as my Priest told me, is superficial. It is the intimacy, the closeness that counts. Same with Our LORD and Man. HE is CRAZY about You!! HE can hardly wait to break out of the Tabernacle and feed You with HIS BODY, BLOOD, SOUL AND DIVINITY. Of course, we all have our down times as well (Desolation), but we take it as it comes. Thanking the LORD for HIS Consolation at times like You mention above, and thanking HIM when praying takes the inner strength of 800 elephants. You are fine!! I’m Happy for You!!**
 
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