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jmcrae
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What I’m understanding from this is that, when you are in the middle of the pew, it seems to you as if you have only two choices - either follow the crowd up to the front and get a blessing, or remain seated in the pew and block traffic.But quite honestly whether we file in for a blessing depends most of the time upon which side of the pew we’re able to sit. In a packed church, sometimes you have to sit in the middle or even on the isle. Since pews have kneelers, it’s almost an absolute necessity to get out of the pew if you have to sit in one of those locations instead of a “window” seat. As such, you are left with a very real traffic problem as you block everything and disrupt traffic flow. I’ve seen it happen many times and it’s happened to me.
There is, in fact a third option, which is to exit the pew with the people in your pew, stand back out of the way (in the aisle) while they get by you, and then re-enter the pew, and sit. When you see them returning, go out the other end (the end where they are returning from) until everyone who needs to get by you has gone in, and then retake your place in the centre of the pew. At this point, you can kneel down to pray along with everyone else in your pew. Most people won’t even realize that you didn’t go forward with them in the Communion line.
