Is it Perfect contrition?

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Can you have made an act of perfect contrition if you intend to go to the next organised confessions at church (at my parish it’s every week) instead of intending to go like the same or the next day and trying to find the preist and organising one especially?
 
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Perfect contrition has nothing to do with whether you go to confession at the scheduled time or if you go out of your way to set up an appointment for it. Perfect contrition means having sorrow for having offended God, whom you should love above all things.

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Perfect Contrition-
Sorrow for sin arising from perfect love. In perfect contrition the sinner detests sin more than any other evil, because it offends God, who is supremely good and deserving of all human love. Its motive is founded on God’s own personal goodness and not merely his goodness to the sinner or to humanity. This motive, not the intensity of the act and less still the feelings experienced, is what essentially constitutes perfect sorrow. A perfect love of God, which motivates perfect contrition, does not necessarily exclude attachment to venial sin. Venial sin conflicts with a high degree of perfect love of God, but not with the substance of that love. Moreover, in the act of perfect contrition other motives can coexist with the perfect love required. There can be fear or gratitude, or even lesser motives such as self-respect and self-interest, along with the dominant reason for sorrow, which is love for God. Perfect contrition removes the guilt and eternal punishment due to grave sin, even before sacramental absolution. However, a Catholic is obliged to confess his or her grave sins at the earliest opportunity and may not, in norma circumstances, receive Communion before he or she has been absolved by a priest in the sacrament of penance.
 
Thanks I knew about this part but I read somewhere that said that you needed to intend to go to confession at the “next available opportunity” or something like that
 
Intending to confess as soon as possible is, along with perfect contrition as I understand a requirement for forgiveness of mortal sins prior to sacramental absolution, not for perfect contrition itself.

Based on my reading of the relevant paragraphs in the Catechism it does not seem that with such contrition saying, “I could go now but I’ll go later in the week” would be sufficient for forgiveness of mortal sins before confession.
 
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The general rule is, if contrition for your sins arises from perfect love of God, it is possible that your sins could be forgiven by God before you ever enter the Confessional. But since there is no way to know this for certain, you must always go to confession at the next available opportunity. Never rely on perfect contrition alone - that’s why we have been given the Sacrament of Penance.
 
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The key is that “perfect contrition” is not some magic formula we have to “get right” so that God will love us. This, along with other ways of thinking that arise from scrupulosity, are best handled by a priest. Posting threads on internet forums about topics related to scrupulosity (as you have before) is not going to help you, it will only feed the compulsions. See a priest.

You are in my prayers.

-Fr ACEGC
 
Thanks I knew about this part but I read somewhere that said that you needed to intend to go to confession at the “next available opportunity” or something like that
A priest that must celebrate the Mass can cannot get to confession, may use CIC Canon 916.
Can. 916 A person who is conscious of grave sin is not to celebrate Mass or receive the body of the Lord without previous sacramental confession unless there is a grave reason and there is no opportunity to confess; in this case the person is to remember the obligation to make an act of perfect contrition which includes the resolution of confessing as soon as possible.
 
And having a desire to be perfectly sorry?
I have thought long and hard about perfect contrition, and have concluded that it can only be ours by the grace of God. If I have a desire to be perfectly sorry, the best course of action is to earnestly pray for the grace of perfect contrition. If God deems it best to grant it to us, He will. If, for some reason he decides it isn’t part of the plan for our lives, He won’t. I also feel perfect contrition is impossible unless one has placed God above all other beings, and loves Him with a perfect love. Then perfect contrition becomes possible, but still requires God’s grace to be ours. Just my thoughts, and I’ve no idea whether they actually correlate with Church teaching or not.
 
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