Is it possible for a good person to be condemned to hell?

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I don’t know if this will make sense to anyone but it was gradually revealed to me in the school of hard knocks over many painful years.
Good works, pleasant experiences, even knowledge, can be in a context of sin. Superficial goodness always used to throw me and I might also get carried away with it. However, if the larger envelope is corrupt, it doesn’t make any difference how many nice acts are performed within it.
I’d be interested in what others think about this.
All true. This is the meaning of the pharisees being white-washed tombs, clean on the outside, filthy on the inside. And this is why its said that God judges by the heart.
 
Growing up I always believed that Heaven is for good people and Hell is for bad people.

But reading into what the church considers to be grave matters is worrying me.

Is it possible for a good person to end up condemned to hell?
good people are persons of good will, that is, persons who have a sincere full selfless love of others. I would define these terms, such that all persons in a state of grace are of good will (good people), and vice versa. If you die in a state of grace, the stating of loving God and neighbor, then you will go to Heaven (perhaps by way of Purgatory).

everyone in Hell does not have the state of grace, so they don’t love God or neighbor.
 
Missing mass, I believe, is a “grave matter” and mortal sin, yes?.
Grave matter, yes. Not necessarily mortal sin, though.
If so…do you think that a person can be loving and good and generous and helpful to others their entire life, but if they miss mass…and then die…they can be condemned to hell? .
Can be ?. I would say may be.
However that is way above the pay-grade of anyone here to say that they will or not.
 
I am not Catholic so you don’t have to take anything I say with any weight, but I do have a very deep relationship with “God”. I do not believe that the omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent being of God would ever cast anybody into eternal damnation. “The eyes of God weigh heaviest on the soul.”
How we feel about our own morality is of the utmost importance. If you carry guilt and disgust for yourself or your actions, then those will weigh you down, perhaps even into the after-life. Yet once you cast off those shackles and realize that God loves you equally with all others, you will feel His/Her love course through you and you become a conduit of that energy, spreading the light and love everywhere you go. It is never too late to repent, not even in death. That doesn’t mean that actions can ever be taken back, or that other people must forgive you, but it means that above all, you must forgive yourself to know that you walk in God’s grace.
 
Thank you.

Aren’t you glad some people posting are not God?
🙂

Fran
Yes I am glad though not in the way you probably are. I am glad that some people are not God that are posting here because they wish to mistakenly usurp Justice with Mercy. ANd they have little concept of the fall of man, the nature of man and the nature of God and how those have to be reconciled. Many also may have no concept of what the Mass really is and why being present at the foot of the Cross is indeed something we are obligated to to. Seeing as Jesus did something even greater for us. Something we were not owed or deserved.

There are no confession lines, no evangelical excitement to spread the Gospel and convert? Why is that? Because we mistakenly believe that all we have to do is be good to our standards and we will be fine. That is not Catholicism, heck it isn’t even Christianity it is making ourselves gods of our own holiness. And some will burn for that. No matter how much they save kittens and donate to the homeless.
 
I can think of example where good people are “supposedly” condemned to hell.

These are REAL people, and they have been already WARNED by the priest.

Good in the sense of being kind, loving, charitable, gentle, love their kids, etc.

This is a young couple who are in an irregular marriage. Annulment denied. The person who was married before is the innocent victim in this scenario.

So, based on Church teachings, people in irregular marriages are an example.
 
What did Jesus write? and why is that your standard of authority?
What did Jesus write? And my standard of authority?

I don’t understand. Isn’t Jesus your standard of authority?

Some people here are very legalistic. If I remember correctly Jesus was not too happy with the pharisees. Check out Mathew 23:13-36.

And as regarding Jesus authority, go to Mathew 7:24. Let’s build on the foundation of stone, which is Jesus Christ.

Some read the CCC and not the bible. I find these persons to be very damning and judgemental. God is Love. Love casts out all fear. If we love God and follow Jesus, we’re not to be sitting around all day wondering if we’ve commited a mortal sin and if we’re going to hell. This is very detrimental to our christian joy.

Anyway, the commandment is Remember to Keep Holy the Sabbath.

We should study on what that means. How do you keep a day holy? What does holy mean? Does it mean we just go to church? Too many people think this. And how do we keep the Sabbath? Jesus is our new Sabbath!

This doesn’t mean we could sin. Jesus told Mary Magdalene, Neither do I condemn you - go and sin no more. But sin we will continue to do - Jesus will cover for us.

The N.T. doesn’t teach me legalism but how to have a good relationship with the Lord.

Fran
 
Yes I am glad though not in the way you probably are. I am glad that some people are not God that are posting here because they wish to mistakenly usurp Justice with Mercy. ANd they have little concept of the fall of man, the nature of man and the nature of God and how those have to be reconciled. Many also may have no concept of what the Mass really is and why being present at the foot of the Cross is indeed something we are obligated to to. Seeing as Jesus did something even greater for us. Something we were not owed or deserved.

There are no confession lines, no evangelical excitement to spread the Gospel and convert? Why is that? Because we mistakenly believe that all we have to do is be good to our standards and we will be fine. That is not Catholicism, heck it isn’t even Christianity it is making ourselves gods of our own holiness. And some will burn for that. No matter how much they save kittens and donate to the homeless.
I agree with you 100%.

Not only do you have to be good to God’s standards, I take it a step further and say you have to start by believing in God or you’re lost from the start.

However, God’s standards are very high - higher than in the O.T. See Mathew 5:17-48.
Jesus didn’t come to abolish the law but to fulfill the law. We’re very lucky to be living under the New Covenant and not the Old Covenant (or the Mosaic Covenant). It has to do with knowing that great thing Jesus did for us, as you say, and our reaction to it.

I’ve taught from the CCC and find it to be problematic. If others like it, that’s okay. I like knowing Jesus better than knowing the CCC.

Fran
 
What did Jesus write? And my standard of authority?

I don’t understand. Isn’t Jesus your standard of authority?

Some people here are very legalistic. If I remember correctly Jesus was not too happy with the pharisees. Check out Mathew 23:13-36.

And as regarding Jesus authority, go to Mathew 7:24. Let’s build on the foundation of stone, which is Jesus Christ.

Some read the CCC and not the bible. I find these persons to be very damning and judgemental. God is Love. Love casts out all fear. If we love God and follow Jesus, we’re not to be sitting around all day wondering if we’ve commited a mortal sin and if we’re going to hell. This is very detrimental to our christian joy.

Anyway, the commandment is Remember to Keep Holy the Sabbath.

We should study on what that means. How do you keep a day holy? What does holy mean? Does it mean we just go to church? Too many people think this. And how do we keep the Sabbath? Jesus is our new Sabbath!

This doesn’t mean we could sin. Jesus told Mary Magdalene, Neither do I condemn you - go and sin no more. But sin we will continue to do - Jesus will cover for us.

The N.T. doesn’t teach me legalism but how to have a good relationship with the Lord.

Fran
Funny, but I’ve known a lot of condemning people who’ve relied strictly on the bible alone. The catechism seems quite sound and well balanced IMO, with plenty of teachings about God’s love and the dignity of man. But sin is a reality-and one that can separate man from God just as it did in Eden to begin with- and the doctrine of mortal sin is related to St John’s statement in 1 John 5 that refers to “sin that leads to death”.

So as a concept the doctrine is quite sound. The way we understand it, however, especially as its been understood and practiced in the Catholic culture at times, can lead to a neurotic scrupulosity, and even support a misunderstanding of God’s goodness and love-a misunderstanding that actually originates in man’s already distorted image of Him, an image which the Catechism tells us resulted from the Fall. JMO.
 
What did Jesus write? And my standard of authority?

I don’t understand. Isn’t Jesus your standard of authority?

Some people here are very legalistic. If I remember correctly Jesus was not too happy with the pharisees. Check out Mathew 23:13-36.

And as regarding Jesus authority, go to Mathew 7:24. Let’s build on the foundation of stone, which is Jesus Christ.

Some read the CCC and not the bible. I find these persons to be very damning and judgemental. God is Love. Love casts out all fear. If we love God and follow Jesus, we’re not to be sitting around all day wondering if we’ve commited a mortal sin and if we’re going to hell. This is very detrimental to our christian joy.

Anyway, the commandment is Remember to Keep Holy the Sabbath.

We should study on what that means. How do you keep a day holy? What does holy mean? Does it mean we just go to church? Too many people think this. And how do we keep the Sabbath? Jesus is our new Sabbath!

This doesn’t mean we could sin. Jesus told Mary Magdalene, Neither do I condemn you - go and sin no more. But sin we will continue to do - Jesus will cover for us.

The N.T. doesn’t teach me legalism but how to have a good relationship with the Lord.

Fran
I have no idea where you are coming up with this stuff.

Please answer the question. What did Jesus write? You said He did not write the CCC as if there was something else He wrote that has some greater authority because Jesus wrote it. What might that be.

The pharisee argument has been turned into a reason for realativism. It has been misunderstood and overplayed.
Where are you coming up with your own personal theology?
 
Everything that is good about a person comes from God, and can be found in God eternally. The whole idea of sin is perversion or lessening of good.
Yes, when a person commits a mortal sin, what’s being lost–the person–is essentially a good thing.

Morality has meaning only through actions. You are collectively what God has done and what you do. As Batman said, “It’s not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me.
That was especially true for Val Kilmer.
 
I have no idea where you are coming up with this stuff.

Please answer the question. What did Jesus write? You said He did not write the CCC as if there was something else He wrote that has some greater authority because Jesus wrote it. What might that be.

The pharisee argument has been turned into a reason for realativism. It has been misunderstood and overplayed.
Where are you coming up with your own personal theology?
I have no idea why you misunderstand. I don’t know what to say.

Maybe you could speak to my priest for whom I taught catechism classes for 6 yrs until having to quit last year. Or maybe another priest who’s known me forever and agrees with me on everything. Or the Monsignor who’s been to our home for dinner many times. Or maybe the two Deacons of two different parishes who know me and my thoughts on everything.

You want to know what Jesus wrote: Jesus wrote all those red words in any bible you care to read, except for the Jehovah Witnesses version.

The CCC was written by the magesterium of the church. Men wrote the CCC based on biblical references and early church father teachings and papal encyclicals and bulls.

Did you know that there are nuns that tell you not to tell children the story of Adam and Eve because when they grow up they find out it’s not true and they loose their faith?
I didn’t listen.

Did you know that there are priests who don’t want you to tell children about hell or the devil because when they grow up they don’t like the devil and decide they don’t like God either? I didn’t listen.

Did you know that there are priests who don’t like to even mention the word “sin” and use other words such as our fragility?

Did you know that our kids are being taught a lot of fluff and nothing solid? God is all love, no justice there. I didn’t pay attention to that either.

Now I know catechists receive little respect nowadays. In fact, parents are pretty resentful of the fact that they even have to take their kids for lessons at all. My parents knew I took what I did seriously and all my kids showed up every week and did very well. Even the ones who thought they had never sinned found out how wrong they were.

We’re required to know basic and moral theology, the bible and the CCC, prayers, and the four parts of the Mass, the 7 sacraments, the liturgical year, put together programs for Christmas and Easter. I even did the liturgy for the Sacrament of Reconciliaton and First Communion.

I’m not a heretic Hoosier Daddy. This is the second letter you’ve sent and I’m not sure what I said to make you misunderstand.

Jesus was very upset with the pharisees. He said it, not me. They had their religion on the outside and on the inside they were legalistic and proud and kept normal jews from knowing God. This exists today too. Too much legalism keeps you from the love of God.
If this is threatening to you, I can’t help it. It’s the truth. Read 1 John chapters 4 and 5. Read the book of Hebrews. Read those words in red.

I don’t have any personal theology. I’m trained to teach what the church teaches. I retain the right to be a bit softer than some people on this thread that say that if I miss Mass a couple of times I’m going to hell. I’ll leave that up to God to decide and not them.

If people use the pharisee argument for relativism it’s not my fault. I’m just stating the way things were when Jesus walked the streets of Jerusalem and the northern hills of Capernaum near the Sea of Galilee where he sat down and spoke of the beatitudes. Find out what it means when the Rabbi sat down. Do you think people who tell someone they’re going to hell are meek or are peacekeepers? And they’re saying it to a christian - not an atheist.

Do you really want a lesson on what it means to keep the Sabbath?

Come on Hoosier Daddy. Give me a break.

Fran
 
Funny, but I’ve known a lot of condemning people who’ve relied strictly on the bible alone. The catechism seems quite sound and well balanced IMO, with plenty of teachings about God’s love and the dignity of man. But sin is a reality-and one that can separate man from God just as it did in Eden to begin with- and the doctrine of mortal sin is related to St John’s statement in 1 John 5 that refers to “sin that leads to death”.

So as a concept the doctrine is quite sound. The way we understand it, however, especially as its been understood and practiced in the Catholic culture at times, can lead to a neurotic scrupulosity, and even support a misunderstanding of God’s goodness and love-a misunderstanding that actually originates in man’s already distorted image of Him, an image which the Catechism tells us resulted from the Fall. JMO.
You’re always right fhansen. I just think the CCC is not always very clear and could cause confusion unless you know some basic concepts first.

I especially agree with your second pp and I do wish we could be a bit more merciful with people and not just lay down the law all the time. We’re living in the New Covenant now, living under grace - I just wish we’d act like it.

If some understand this as a really weird concept or that we can sin all we want to, I can’t help it and cannot explain any better.

In Christ
Fran
 
Your post confuses me, but in christianity you have to be something underneath first and then you can do things.

God bless
I was kidding…

The poster refernced what’s under the Batman suit, and Val was an unpopular Batman (under the suit), as was George Clooney.
 
I was kidding…

The poster refernced what’s under the Batman suit, and Val was an unpopular Batman (under the suit), as was George Clooney.
Yeah. I watch movies too!

Just wanted to make the point about the christian concept being the opposite of what Val (who’s really aged!) Kilmer said.

Fran
 
I have no idea why you misunderstand. I don’t know what to say.

Maybe you could speak to my priest for whom I taught catechism classes for 6 yrs until having to quit last year. Perhaps your parish could provide better training for it’s chatechists Or maybe another priest who’s known me forever and agrees with me on everything.That is called overstating your case. Or the Monsignor who’s been to our home for dinner many times. Or maybe the two Deacons of two different parishes who know me and my thoughts on everything.Providing clergy as sources is not really a good theological argument. It is anecdotal. at best and at worst it is showing that many people either misunderstand their own clergy or provide them with more authority than they should

You want to know what Jesus wrote: Jesus wrote all those red words in any bible you care to read, except for the Jehovah Witnesses version.Um, nope. Jesus did not write anything we know of. He did write somehting in dirt once but no one knows what that is. The third person of the Trinity, the Holy Spirit, Though man wrote the Bible. All of the Bible the entirety of scripture not just what the printing press decided to put in red as if they are somehow overriding those in black… You should know all of these things if indeed you are any sort of catechist. JESUS DID NOT WRITE THE BIBLE, or any book therein.

The CCC was written by the magesterium of the church. Men wrote the CCC based on biblical Men also wrote the Bible…references and early church father teachings and papal encyclicals and bulls.

Did you know that there are nuns that tell you not to tell children the story of Adam and Eve because when they grow up they find out it’s not true and they loose their faith?
I didn’t listen.Yes, another example of those with authority int eh Church who guess what *gasp can be wrong. Why do you appeal to your priest for proof of your point and then not recognize the double standard here

Did you know that there are priests who don’t want you to tell children about hell or the devil because when they grow up they don’t like the devil and decide they don’t like God either? I didn’t listen.Good and you shouldnt listen.when people are telling you things that are wrong. Perhaps you could read the Bible or the CCC to find out that those priests are indeed wrong.

Did you know that there are priests who don’t like to even mention the word “sin” and use other words such as our fragility?Yes, and they should be phased out of the Church

Did you know that our kids are being taught a lot of fluff and nothing solid? God is all love, no justice there. I didn’t pay attention to that either. Neither do I. I think it is one of the biggest problems in our time

Now I know catechists receive little respect nowadays.Perhaps ones who don’t know the faith do In fact, parents are pretty resentful of the fact that they even have to take their kids for lessons at all. Parents are the primary chatechists. And please understand that if you taught my children what you are saying here, I would indeed protect their faith by pulling them out of the program. You are to teach the faith, not your opinion My parents knew I took what I did seriously and all my kids showed up every week and did very well. Even the ones who thought they had never sinned found out how wrong they were.What an odd statement Could you elaborate as to what that means?
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We’re required to know basic and moral theology, the bible and the CCC, prayers, and the four parts of the Mass, the 7 sacraments, the liturgical year, put together programs for Christmas and Easter. I even did the liturgy for the Sacrament of Reconciliaton and First Communion.Then why are you mistaken on some basic issues in this thread?
I’m not a heretic Hoosier Daddy.I doubt you are The definition of Heretic is quite narrow. I do think you are misinformed however This is the second letter you’ve sent and I’m not sure what I said to make you misunderstand. I can’t help you there
Jesus was very upset with the pharisees. He said it, not me. They had their religion on the outside and on the inside they were legalistic and proud and kept normal jews from knowing God. This exists today too. Too much legalism keeps you from the love of God.
If this is threatening to you, I can’t help it. It’s the truth. Read 1 John chapters 4 and 5. Read the book of Hebrews.Seeing as I have many theological qualifications, I agree with your point. Read those words in red.Perhaps you could get a Bible without the words in red because I think it is contributing to your misunderstanding. What did people do before color printers?
I don’t have any personal theology. Yes, you do, we all do. But you are confusing yours with the Church’s and yours is a problem of authorityI’m trained to teach what the church teaches. Then please do so… And leave the other stuff behind I retain the right to be a bit softer than some people on this thread that say that if I miss Mass a couple of times I’m going to hell. I’ll leave that up to God to decide and not them.Is this an example of you teaching what the Church teaches?
If people use the pharisee argument for relativism it’s not my fault. I’m just stating the way things were when Jesus walked the streets of Jerusalem and the nearby hills of Capernaum when he sat down and spoke of the beatitudes. Find out what it means when the Rabbi sat down. That was covered in first year theology… Do you think people who tell someone they’re going to hell are meek or are peacekeepers? And they’re saying it to a christian - not an atheist.
Do you really want a lesson on what it means to keep the Sabbath?Apparently you think I need one… I would welcome it then…
Come on Hoosier Daddy. Give me a break. On second thought perhaps you should go back and read those “words in red” and find out just how much more Jesus mentions Hell in His teaching than the CCC…😉
Why are you so judgmental of people you deem as pharisees? Why do you condemn and judge those who condemn and judge?
 
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