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Dmitri451
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This thread is an outgrowth of another thread where the conditions necessary to commit a mortal sin were discussed. In that thread, I wrote:
So, I’m inviting (name removed by moderator)ut from the community at large about these questions…
To understand the answers to these questions, you have to put it in the context of love. Nothing about Christian morality makes any sense outside the context of love.
I once heard someone put it this way: The difference between a venial sin and a mortal is that a venial sin simply harms your relationship with God, and a mortal sin breaks it. It is like the difference between snapping at your wife when you’re tired and committing adultery. Your wife can overlook and forgive the first one without you even explicitly asking for forgiveness because she knows you really love her and that you are sorry. But if you commit adultery, you have broken the relationship. It can be repaired, but you have to explicitly ask for forgiveness, and of course, there is still a good deal of lasting damage to your relationship that will take a lot of time and love to overcome.
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There are three things that are required for a sin to be mortal. If any single one of these three are not present, the sin is not mortal:
- The sin must be known (or believed by the person) to be a serious matter.
- There must be sufficient reflection. That is to say, it can’t be a reflex action. There must be sufficient time and opportunity for the sinner to realize what they are doing before they choose to do it. [This example was not in the original post, but I’m thinking of using the Lord’s name in vain upon smashing your finger with a hammer.]
- There must be FULL consent of the will. Not 95%. Not 99.999999%. There must be 100% consent of the will.
Clearly, by definition, a person with a compulsion, habit, or addiction to commit a particular sin [masturbation was the topic], is not in full posession of their will. And since you can’t give what you don’t have, they cannot give full consent.
An interesting question that I’m not qualified to answer is this: On a practical level, there are all sorts of things that one could argue would prevent a person from being able to give full consent to anything. Does that mean that it is practically impossible to commit a mortal sin?
I also want to ask if I have it correct that if the sin is believed by the sinner to be serious matter, then for that person it is.I’m not qualified to give an answer that would hold up under the scrutiny of a moral theologian, but from my own experience I would say that it is quite possible to give full consent. I am convinced that I have done so myself.
So, I’m inviting (name removed by moderator)ut from the community at large about these questions…