I am unsure how it could be all over but that is easily corrected.
I do not believe that their is a personal loving god. And if a god does exist it does not care what happens and does not intervene.
I am relieved in fact that it is so unlikely that a god does exist.
Among your several unproven assumptions is that God is done. He has nothing more to do. He said “Presto” and suddenly everything was done, and what’s on your plate is all you’re going to get. They are different ways to imagine God. One way would be to imagine God as creating progressively over time. In other words, you are judging a product based on completeness, that hasn’t been completed yet. That’s one possible view.
Another way is that we do not see when he does intervene. I see no evidence that he has not intervened, so I withhold my judgement on that. Maybe you have a cosmic view that lets you see from outside the universe so you know exactly what he’s up to and can see very clearly he isn’t doing anything. I lack such a divine talent. My advice would be that you should withhold judgement, too, until you’re certain you are seeing everything clearly. Who know what you might be missing in your premature judgment.
It is also possible that there is no need to intervene. I had a hard time figuring out why people were so hung up on “suffering.” They weep, “Oh, if there was a God, there wouldn’t be any suffering.” “Oh, how I suffer; why doesn’t God help me.” That is a narrow, arrogant, conceited perspective. I have suffered for my children, and I don’t regret one nanosecond of it. I pity people (outside North Korea and similar holcaustic nations) whose main worry in life is about suffering. Is that really a person’s main concern in life? What a disappointment everything, literally everything must be for them. How can they enjoy anything, knowing that at any second, they might suffer again. Life must be hell.
Suffering is a part of life, and I dare say, Suffering is a necessary part of life. Without suffering we would suffer tremendously more than we suffer now. Don’t believe me? When you burn your hand on something, you pull it back, right? What if you didn’t experience that suffering? Why pull your hand back quickly, or at all? Then you’ll wind up with these crispy, smoky, twisted things at the end of your arms, that wouldn’t be as effective as someone who suffered the burn and jerked his hand back. What if it didn’t hurt to look at the sun. It’s so bright. It’s neat to look at. So you go blind, a worse suffering. It’s not that God does fails to prevent suffering, but he allows suffering that will prevent greater suffering.
If there is a God, and if there is an after-life, then it makes sense (to me, at least), that any suffering here has pay-back. Either, as stated above, it saves us from greater, more serious suffering and damage, or it lets us enter that after-life with something – some kind of experiences or something – that makes that after-life richer for us. And I suspect in that after-life the only suffering we will experience will be self-imposed. People who miss the joys of life because they are focused on suffering, and do little to alleviate suffering, they may suffer because of that.
And that is a fourth alternative possibility on why there is suffering. God made man in his image, male and female, man and woman. If God is compassionate, loving and forgiving, then men and women should be likewise. But how are you to show love, forgiveness, and compassion if no one around you needs anything? It may be that suffering was necessary – one of those “negotiated imperfections” that make existence even possible in the first place – and that God gave mankind the responsibility to alleviate the suffering. God will take care of the big things – like the sun going nova, Jupiter-sized asteroids crashing into the earth, a plague exterminating all human life – and people take care of the small things, local things, easy things – like feeding the hungry, caring for the sick, attending the lonely, wiping away tears.
Maybe the reason we can’t see God is because we aren’t enough like him yet, not on the same wave-length. Instead of telling God what he should be doing, we should be attending to our here and now responsibilities, and “let tomorrow take care of itself.” Blaming God for everything is a child’s crutch for doing what he wants with little regard for self-discipline and duty.