If it’s good enough for Raphael, it’s good enough for me.
Re: gendered pronouns, I remember going through that stage. I also remember the stage where I thought it was really cool to call God “Mother” and “She.” And then I figured out that I was being stupid, and that I couldn’t possibly know better than Jesus. He’s the One Who can tell you about God, because He is God. Go to the Source.
Of course, it really is important to remember that (other than Jesus, true Man and true God) God doesn’t have a sex, because He’s absolutely simple.
But there’s also a lot of deep truths involved in calling Him “He,” and Pope John Paul II did some good teaching on that topic. Knocked some sense into my head.
It’s also a lot easier to appreciate Mary and other holy women of the Church, and even the maternal qualities of God, when you don’t have a lot of false theology and Christology running around in your head. The Bible, the Mass and the Liturgy of the Hours, and everything else that the Church teaches are one big thing. If you dig into it, you will find a lot. If you turn away from it, you’ll miss all the neat stuff!
It’s not a bad phase to go through, per se, but don’t waste your time as long as I did.