The original followers of Christ were expected to drop everything and join the ministry. If we were going to be purists, then we might want to do the same exact thing and give up worldly pursuits in favor of full-time ministry. Most everyone is a Sunday bench warmer, and few are called to the ministry. Why NOT get married, collect material possessions for the purpose of self-gratification, and just do a whole slew of other things that are contrary to the messages of Jesus? Everyone ELSE does! Is there a Catholic saying for that?
Not exactly. The original disciples who
physically followed Jesus from place to place were expected to drop everything.
Think of it like this… if you were going to walk around with Jesus everywhere He went, you couldn’t have responsibilities in your family or community. One would have needed to dispense with all of their responsibilities before being able to physically follow him around.
When Jesus was talking to rich man, the rich man wanted to literally become one of Jesus’s disciples and follow Him around (like the 12). In order to do that, the man needed to drop his worldly possessions, which he wasn’t willing to do.
Jesus knew the man’s heart. The man was willing to drop his responsibilities but he wasn’t willing to get rid of his possessions. Jesus knew the rich man cared more for is possessions than he did for The Way.
We know from history, that there were plenty of believers who did NOT give up everything they had. There were many who were just your average lay person, like we have today. But the ones who physically followed Jesus from place to place (like the 12, Mary Magdalene, etc) were basically the first priests & nuns.
Jesus’s own Mother, Mary didn’t give up her home. Was not homeless. Also, the Apostles didn’t sell off their homes either, Peter still owned his home and still owned his fishing boat(s).
Possessions (in of themself) are not bad. On the contrary, private ownership is very good. What’s wrong is “the love of money” and/or the “love of material possessions.” It’s when we put our possessions and money before God that it becomes an issue.
And that was the point of the story of Jesus and the rich man. He put his possessions before God.
I pray this helps.
God Bless