The Orthodox believe that they are the true church of Christ also and that the Catholic church is NOT the real church
I think this overstates the nature of the dispute. The Orthodox have issues with claims of Papal authority on matters of doctrine, but have always recognized the primacy of Peter as “first among equals.” Doesn’t this recognition implicitly acknowledge the authenticity of the Church, although the Orthodox would contend the Latin Rite Church has gone astray with respect to the assertion of papal doctrinal authority over the Councils
PaultheApostle:
How do we know who is right?
Ultimately, it is a matter of faith. You can reason through it to a point, but ultimately, you have to take a leap. In my case, the road of reason led me to the conclusion that Christ intended to establish a Church with an ultimate authority to decide matters of doctrine, and he appointed Peter (and his successors) to the office.
PaultheApostle:
Is St Peter and his sucessor the Pope and being in union with them the most important thing?
Following Christ and doing what He would have us do is the most important thing. If faith and reason lead one to accept the conclusion that the successor of Peter (Benedict XVI) is the earthly leader of Christ’s Church, then taking no action to align one’s practice with that authority amounts to disobedience of Christ.
Paulthe Apostle:
Catholics believe the gates of hell will never overcome their church,but i know that the Orthodox believe that the gates of hell HAVE overcome the Roman Catholic church
Some Orthodox persons believe this because that is what they were taught. Others have reasoned themselves to a point, then stepped out in faith to affirm what they believe to be God’s truth. Only God knows whether they are being honest with themselves or not. But for me, I have to follow my conscience and follow where faith and reason have led me. We all have to take that walk. But I would say truth is truth, whether people choose to believe it or not.
PaultheApostle:
Why do they believe that ? that Rome is in error or heresy…?
There are lots of reasons why people believe such things. For some, they were raised to believe it and have taken no time to really consider the issue. Others have been misled about what the differences are between Orthodox and Catholic. Still others have reasoned their way to such a conclusion, although I would disagree with their conclusion. Others have left the Orthodox faith to unite with the Catholic Church. Again, this should not disuade anyone from taking the same journey.
PaultheApostle:
If Romes beliefs were truly sound,then why would the Orthodox have such a case against them and accuse them of being heretical?
Because the issues that divide and separate are subtle and difficult.
PaultheApostle:
We try our best to believe the truth. But there’s no easy answer. It boils down to a leap of faith. People take that leap from different points along the way.
Peace,
Robert