Is it wrong for me to change churches?

[Hope1960]

I have not sought the counsel of this parish priest. I have discussed the issue with a priest in confession. This friend is very much into his faith and knows the priest at our parish well (much better than I do) and I have no desire to embarrass him. I do want what is best for him, even if that means he has nothing to do with me. I just wish he would’ve given me a little explanation for my own good.

If it was bothering me as much as it seems to be bothering you, I’d make an appointment and talk with the priest again. I don’t think I’d mention any names, just call him “a good friend”.

 

[Sirach2]

Marie16:

I do need to think more of if he may be suffering himself. That I don’t know. […] I do not think that excuses the behavior still and think at a minimum you owe it to someone you care for to make your intentions known to them - even if that means you will no longer be a part of their lives.

I agree, he should at least give you that courtesy, but that, unfortunately, is where he’s at right now. Things can change with time and reflection, and he may realize he needs to address this more openly with you some day soon, hopefully.

Stay in your own church, meanwhile, and consider how much you are loved and cherished by God. Do not to allow another to influence your worthy self image by their rejection.

 

[QuD]

I think everything has been said. I would like to address your idea of making other parish your “primary”. You are free to receive (most of) the sacraments from any catholic minister in any parish. However, your parish membership is based on the place of your residence (permanent or long-term temporary), so the only way to change your parish canonically is to move.

 

[lilypadrees]

You say there are 4 Masses each weekend at your parish. Could you perhaps attend a different one than you usually do?