Is losing sperm a mortal sin?

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I used to masturbate a lot and now have stopped and confessed to a priest. However, I still have the urge and started to just lay on my stomach and not do it. However, I still seem to ejaculate. Is this a mortal sin I need to confess?
EDIT: I very rarely have nay sexual thoughts when this happens.
 
no, if you’re not doing it on purpose or arousing it to happen, then no it’s not, sins are something you *will *to happen, if it’s not in your will, it’s not your fault.
but it would be a good thing to bring up with your priest, he can give you advise and tell you for sure what’s wrong or not.
 
No, I wouldn’t say it was a sin. I don’t even agree masturbating is a sin, but that is neither here nor there at this time…
When your body needs to rid itself of an excessive amount of sperm, it will. That’s why men sometimes have “wet dreams”, their body has built up its sperm count, and needs to mae room for new sperm.
If you are concerned about masturbating, I would suggest not laying on your stomach, sometimes the pressure will bring you to orgasm.
 
The traditional Catholic doctrine that masturbation constitutes a grave moral disorder is often called into doubt or expressly denied today. It is said that psychology and sociology show that it is a normal phenomenon of sexual development, especially among the young. It is stated that there is real and serious fault only in the measure that the subject deliberately indulges in solitary pleasure closed in on self (“ipsation”), because in this case the act would indeed be radically opposed to the loving communion between persons of different sex which some hold is what is principally sought in the use of the sexual faculty.

This opinion is contradictory to the teaching and pastoral practice of the Catholic Church. Whatever the force of certain arguments of a biological and philosophical nature, which have sometimes been used by theologians, in fact both the Magisterium of the Church - in the course of a constant tradition - and the moral sense of the faithful have declared without hesitation that masturbation is an intrinsically and seriously disordered act.[19] The main reason is that, whatever the motive for acting this way, the deliberate use of the sexual faculty outside normal conjugal relations essentially contradicts the finality of the faculty. For it lacks the sexual relationship called for by the moral order, namely the relationship which realizes “the full sense of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love.”[20] All deliberate exercise of sexuality must be reserved to this regular relationship. Even if it cannot be proved that Scripture condemns this sin by name, the tradition of the Church has rightly understood it to be condemned in the New Testament when the latter speaks of “impurity,” “unchasteness” and other vices contrary to chastity and continence.

Sociological surveys are able to show the frequency of this disorder according to the places, populations or circumstances studied. In this way facts are discovered, but facts do not constitute a criterion for judging the moral value of human acts.[21] The frequency of the phenomenon in question is certainly to be linked with man’s innate weakness following original sin; but it is also to be linked with the loss of a sense of God, with the corruption of morals engendered by the commercialization of vice, with the unrestrained licentiousness of so many public entertainments and publications, as well as with the neglect of modesty, which is the guardian of chastity.

On the subject of masturbation modern psychology provides much valid and useful information for formulating a more equitable judgment on moral responsibility and for orienting pastoral action. Psychology helps one to see how the immaturity of adolescence (which can sometimes persist after that age), psychological imbalance or habit can influence behavior, diminishing the deliberate character of the act and bringing about a situation whereby subjectively there may not always be serious fault. But in general, the absence of serious responsibility must not be presumed; this would be to misunderstand people’s moral capacity.

In the pastoral ministry, in order to form an adequate judgment in concrete cases, the habitual behavior of people will be considered in its totality, not only with regard to the individual’s practice of charity and of justice but also with regard to the individual’s care in observing the particular precepts of chastity. In particular, one will have to examine whether the individual is using the necessary means, both natural and supernatural, which Christian asceticism from its long experience recommends for overcoming the passions and progressing in virtue.

vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_con_cfaith_doc_19751229_persona-humana_en.html
 
The traditional Catholic doctrine that masturbation constitutes a grave moral disorder is often called into doubt or expressly denied today. It is said that psychology and sociology show that it is a normal phenomenon of sexual development, especially among the young. It is stated that there is real and serious fault only in the measure that the subject deliberately indulges in solitary pleasure closed in on self (“ipsation”), because in this case the act would indeed be radically opposed to the loving communion between persons of different sex which some hold is what is principally sought in the use of the sexual faculty.

This opinion is contradictory to the teaching and pastoral practice of the Catholic Church. Whatever the force of certain arguments of a biological and philosophical nature, which have sometimes been used by theologians, in fact both the Magisterium of the Church - in the course of a constant tradition - and the moral sense of the faithful have declared without hesitation that masturbation is an intrinsically and seriously disordered act.[19] The main reason is that, whatever the motive for acting this way, the deliberate use of the sexual faculty outside normal conjugal relations essentially contradicts the finality of the faculty. For it lacks the sexual relationship called for by the moral order, namely the relationship which realizes “the full sense of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love.”[20] All deliberate exercise of sexuality must be reserved to this regular relationship. Even if it cannot be proved that Scripture condemns this sin by name, the tradition of the Church has rightly understood it to be condemned in the New Testament when the latter speaks of “impurity,” “unchasteness” and other vices contrary to chastity and continence.

Sociological surveys are able to show the frequency of this disorder according to the places, populations or circumstances studied. In this way facts are discovered, but facts do not constitute a criterion for judging the moral value of human acts.[21] The frequency of the phenomenon in question is certainly to be linked with man’s innate weakness following original sin; but it is also to be linked with the loss of a sense of God, with the corruption of morals engendered by the commercialization of vice, with the unrestrained licentiousness of so many public entertainments and publications, as well as with the neglect of modesty, which is the guardian of chastity.

On the subject of masturbation modern psychology provides much valid and useful information for formulating a more equitable judgment on moral responsibility and for orienting pastoral action. Psychology helps one to see how the immaturity of adolescence (which can sometimes persist after that age), psychological imbalance or habit can influence behavior, diminishing the deliberate character of the act and bringing about a situation whereby subjectively there may not always be serious fault. But in general, the absence of serious responsibility must not be presumed; this would be to misunderstand people’s moral capacity.

In the pastoral ministry, in order to form an adequate judgment in concrete cases, the habitual behavior of people will be considered in its totality, not only with regard to the individual’s practice of charity and of justice but also with regard to the individual’s care in observing the particular precepts of chastity. In particular, one will have to examine whether the individual is using the necessary means, both natural and supernatural, which Christian asceticism from its long experience recommends for overcoming the passions and progressing in virtue.

vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_con_cfaith_doc_19751229_persona-humana_en.html
Wow! well said. Very sound. “Losing sperm,” is a essentially a total male experience & let’s us acknowledge the singular spiritual nature of men. What the post does not imply, however, is that we have special challenges in not outraging our passions.

But as a practical matter to the original poster: these concerns diminish as a function of age or marriage. A serious concentration on the Corporal Mercies will make your anxieties seem so small. Getting outside of yourself & see the suffering you see all around you will bring life your great confessions.
 
I used to masturbate a lot and now have stopped and confessed to a priest. However, I still have the urge and started to just lay on my stomach and not do it. However, I still seem to ejaculate. Is this a mortal sin I need to confess?
EDIT: I very rarely have nay sexual thoughts when this happens.
No Sin, it`s normal, especially if you are young
 
I’m 18, so yeah, I am young
Young man of God,

Don’t let this trip you up. It sounds like you are kind to Christ & concerned generally. Through your concern, I think you’ll find the appropriate answers. But never think you are a bad person. All of us on this forum have been your age, remember that. We all have had the similar struggles, but the kindnesses of Christ, you will see, will allow you to carry on. Know that “this too shall pass,” and you will grow to be a great man regardless of this concern.

Son, bless you for being concerned. I grew up Catholic & no one ever told me that this was a problem. When I realized it was a problem, I was 28! Then it wasn’t a problem anymore (although I confessed). It’ll pass, just be a good man, Christ will know your heart.
 
I am so glad to hear that you are listening to your inner self. You knew masturbation was going against God’s design, even if you didn’t know why, and you’ve committed yourself to changing the behavior. As far as I understand it, in my very limited exploration of the Theology of the Body, the reasons are simple. God designed our sexual natures to reflect who He is. It is through our sexual bodies (as male and female) in the marital act (sex, within the confines of marriage) that we physically demonstrate the Holy Trinity. We give of ourselves to our spouse, 100%, sacrificially; just as the Father and Son give of themselves to each other sacrificially, (although not sexually, obviously). The outpouring of love between the Father and Son manifests itself in the Holy Spirit, thus the Trinity! We are asked to mirror their love and give of ourselves to our spouses; the manifestation of this sacrificial love is our children, should we be blessed to conceive. Now, if you engage in premarital sex, sex outside the marriage covenant, or alone (masturbation) you are no longer mirroring that union between the Father and the Son. You are then, under those circumstances, “using” your body and it’s sexual nature for reasons OUTSIDE of their design. Masturbation is not a communion of souls, it is solitary and not open to life. We are called to be open to life! Our shame when we commit these types of sin is our innate understanding of that which we often times do not understand intellectually. Our souls are crying out for God and His will, even if our minds do not. When Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit and saw themselves naked they felt shame; not because they were naked, but because they suddenly realized that their sexual natures could now, as a result of their eyes being open, be USED.

I encourage you to read the Theology of the Body. It was written by Pope John Paul and is truly divinely inspired. I have read Christopher Wests’ “Theology of the Body: for Beginners” as well as his book, “The Good News About Sex and Marriage”. I also recommend resources by Jason and Crystaline Evert. They are particularly adept at relating to teenagers and young adults.

Take heart and know that God will give you the strength you need to resist your temptations. You CAN save your chastity and purity for your spouse! It’s worth it!

H
 
Dear Gift of God,

Please know that a lot of people on this forum, although well intentioned, tend to be a tad conservative & offer little practical advice. I respect & believe what they believe, but Christ does not come to us as the wagging finger of a church lady.

I notice that you are from Canada & you may find some of these comments confusing. We Americans are really good at repeating Church Doctrine. I grew up in Michigan, very close to the Canadian border. I have been to Mass in Canada more than a few times. Please know that, although we share the same Glorious faith, Canadians tend to be a little more charitable.

Your priest will guide you, I trust.

God Bless.
 
It is not a sin if you did not will for it to occur. Keep in mind, however, that entertaining lustful thoughts is a grave sin and can lead to this happening. That said, if this is happening during your sleep or something, then you have no control over it and it is definitely not a sin.
 
No, I wouldn’t say it was a sin. I don’t even agree masturbating is a sin, but that is neither here nor there at this time…
When your body needs to rid itself of an excessive amount of sperm, it will. That’s why men sometimes have “wet dreams”, their body has built up its sperm count, and needs to mae room for new sperm.
If you are concerned about masturbating, I would suggest not laying on your stomach, sometimes the pressure will bring you to orgasm.
I doubt that the portion I’ve put in bold is true. I have not had sex or masturbated in years. My body isn’t inclined to get rid of any sperm. At least none that I’ve been aware of.
The last wet dream occurred decades ago.
 
I love the idea of this type of forum, but it is clear to me how dangerous it can be. Yes, masturbation is a sin. Look it up in the catechism. Sexual relations are meant to be, you guessed it…in RELATIONSHIP. Masturbation is using (read “objectifying”) one’s body for sexual gratification, which is out of step with God’s design for our bodies. As I said before, look up “Theology of the Body” by Pope John Paul II. Oh, and…NO your body doesn’t need to get rid of extra sperm so it can make room for more. It’s a nice thought, but completely false. That you can look up in any biology book!
 
That sounds like a line out of the back seat of a teenager’s car. “Rid itself of extra sperm”?

MEDIC!!

Seriously…:eek:
 
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