LOve has many expressions. there is agape love, there is fraternal love, there is erotic love and there is the theological Virtue of Love. In the emotion of human love there are two elements, feeling, and thought never just feelings. thought involves knowledge.
There is the human love affair. One is attracted to the opposite sex, the female is gifted with natural beauty, which attracts the male, then there is the desire to know the one attracted to, when knowledge is acquired, then there is a desire to find acceptance in order to acquire.possession , which leads to union and it blessings. This is much like the Virtue of Love (Charity) and this is endowed by Jesus Christ when we give our lives to Him and follow His teachings, it is the Love of God, working in our lives to unite us with Him. the Holy Spirit is the personification of the love the Father has for the Son, and the Son for the Father. The Holy Spirit, the Love of God, is transforming us, moulding us into the likeness of Christ.
We are attracted to God by His love for us, which causes our love for Him, He reveals His beauty, His majesty, His generosity, His caring, His security His goodness We then seek to be united with Him and Him with us. We must first come to know Him, in knowing Him we come to love Him, The Holy Spirit of truth give us knowledge of Him, its’ contained in our faith, a faith of enlightenment, the truth. It is a supernatural gift of Faith, another Cardinal Virtue, as we can’t attain full union is this life, His love for us endows us with an eternal promise of union by the Cardinal Virtue of Hope… When we are united with Him completely Faith and Hope will vanish and only Love will remain, Union!