First, you’re not stupid. Don’t worry about asking ‘stupid questions’.

Now the answer is that Mary, while she is our Mother and the Queen of Heaven, and is God’s most perfect creature. . .is not God.
We only worship God. . .and by worship, since it has been redefined, narrowed done, and obfuscated by nonCatholics as well as Catholics into meaning, to the average person in AD 2015 “that which is offered to GOD ALONE”, then obviously, in that sense we do not, never did, and never will worship Mary.
Because there are many older works of literature (Catholicism being nearly 2000 years old) which were written when the word ‘worship’ meant “worth’” only (which is why British judges are still referred to as ‘your Worship’ when obviously nobody worships them), you will sometimes see those works talking about worship of Mary and the saints. But they never did and never will mean “that worship which is given only to God acknowledging Him as our sole Creator, Judge, and Almighty Lord”. Never did, never will.
So we love Mary. . . but we will always love God 'more". And loving Mary as our mother does not take any ‘love’ away from God.
Think of it this way. If you love your mother and your father, does that mean only ‘half’ your love goes to mom and half to dad? that loving two means you are taking love from the other? Of course not.
So to be cut-and-dried here:
No Mary is not equal to God, that is, Father, Son, and Spirit. They are God; she is a creature like us.
Do we love and worship her as if she were God? No, we never did and we never will.
Do we love her as our Mother (but not our Creator)? Yes.
Do we honor her for saying ‘yes’ to God and being the mother of God? Yes.
Do we call her blessed and give her ‘worth’ (but not worship in the sense of thinking SHE is God because she is not) just as we acknowledge the worth in all human creatures? Yes.
Hope that helps.