Here is a pretty good article that can be found in
The Catholic Answer which is published by Our Sunday Visitor. It is entitled, “Why Call Mary Queen?” by Edward Sri, and it can be found
here.
Why Call Mary Queen?
by Edward Sri
Catholics are often asked by other Christians, “Why do you treat Mary like a queen?” After all, the Scriptures don’t seem to tell us anything about this simple woman from Nazareth having a royal position in Christ’s kingdom. Besides, Mary is not the wife of the King, Jesus. She is just His mother!
A closer look at Scripture, however, shows us that it is precisely from a biblical perspective that Mary’s queenship makes perfect sense. For in ancient Israel, it was the king’s mother who reigned as queen, not the king’s wife.
Most kings in this period had large harems. King Solomon, for example, had 700 wives and 300 concubines (see 1 Kgs 11:3). It would have been impossible to bestow the queenship on 1,000 women! Yet, since each king had only one mother, the queenship was typically given to her.
The queen mother was given the title “Great Lady,” and we can see her importance in a number of passages from the Old Testament. For example, when the books of First and Second Kings introduce a new king in the Kingdom of Judah, they almost always mention the name of the king’s mother alongside her royal son. The queen mother also is portrayed as a pre-eminent member of the royal court, wearing a crown on her head (see Jer 13:18) and heading the list of palace officials in the kingdom (2 Kgs 24:12-15).
Furthermore, the queen mother had a real share in her son’s reign, helping in his mission to shepherd the people (see Jer 13:18-20) and serving as a trusted counselor (Prv 31). But most of all, the queen mother served as an advocate for the people, hearing their petitions and presenting them to the king.
Queen Bathsheba
The Old Testament woman who illustrates the queen mother’s royal prerogatives most clearly is Bathsheba. Consider what happens when she transitions from her role as the wife of king David to her role as queen mother after her son Solomon assumes the throne.
While her husband, David, still reigns as king, Bathsheba enters the royal chamber, and she approaches him like most subjects in the kingdom would: She bows with her face to the ground, pays him homage and says, “May the lord, King David, live forever!” (1 Kgs 1:31).
However, after David dies and her son Solomon becomes king, she is treated very differently, for now she is queen mother. Immediately a man from the kingdom recognizes Bathsheba’s role as advocate and asks her to take a petition to the king. Expressing great confidence in her powerful intercession, he says: “Ask King Solomon, who will not refuse you” (1 Kgs 2:17).
Bathsheba agrees to go to the king. But this time, when she enters the royal chamber, she finds herself receiving royal treatment. The king stands up to greet her and bows before her. He then orders a throne to be brought in for her, and she is seated at his right hand, the position of authority (see 1 Kgs 2:19-20; see also Ps 110:1). Nowhere else in Scripture does the king honor someone to the degree that Solomon honors the queen mother in this scene.
Even more remarkable is how King Solomon affirms his commitment to the queen mother’s intercessory role in the kingdom. After Bathsheba mentions she has a request to present, Solomon responds, “Ask it, my mother, for I will not refuse you” (1 Kgs 2:20).
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