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Ontheway
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Hey coachdennis,Before you take my head off (virtually), I think that you need to take a “chill pill” and understand that while these examples among American Catholics do exist, for many of us – in our fifties and **cradle Catholics **-- we have seen first hand numerous examples of relatives and friends who have used Lent as an excuse to have a weekly lobster salad or shrimo scampi.
However, believe it or not we can “laugh” at these examples and not lose sight of the true meaning of fasting. We can joke at some of the excesses or “legalistic thinking” and understand, appreciate, and try to live the true meaning of Lenten fasting. We can laugh and smile at some of the excesses of “cultural Catholicism” and NOT lose sight of the tenets of the faith.
Despite the attitude expressed by some on this forum, cradle Catholics ARE capable of deep spritual levels of faith experiences.
I hope of you have a joyful and spiritual Lent. I intend to have one at well with the Eucharist, faith sharing in my parish, and… my macaroni and cheese![]()
Have no fear. Your head is quite safe. I believe that you have captured the intent of my initial, rather “fiery” post. It was a feeble attempt on my part at pointing to what should be the reason for fasting and abstaining.
As for the true meaning, should we not think of fasting as an offering, instead of privation or sacrifice?
The church has done a good job of confusing the rules of lent over the last 50 years, and I understand the people who ask about the details. But, maybe we should pay less attention to rules and focus more on the meaning.