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A syndicated newspaper column that shows up on “Religion” pages around the country is made up of a rabbi - Marc Gellman (no, not the Gellman from the Regis & Kelly show) and Monsignor Tom Hartman. It follows a Q & A format. Here’s their latest (printed in the May 26 Morning Call newspaper):
That’s word for word. Is anyone else’s reaction the same as mine?
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Q: I just started reading your column and am looking for some advice on how to pick a church that will suit our family. My husband was brought up Southern Baptist and I was raised Catholic. We're looking for a church that's Christian, liberal and progressive, with a strong children's program for our 9- and 10-year-old girls. We've gone to a couple of area churches that have been "too big", "too liberal" or "too stiff". I'm tired of church-shopping with the kids on Sunday mornings and would welcome any advice on how to narrow down our choices. We're feeling a little overwhelmed with so many churches and denominations out there.
A: We'd encourage you to church-shop without your kids for a while. Make appointments to meet the pastor and the youth minister at each church, and have questions ready so you can compare answers from different churches. Talk confidentially and informally to the secretarial staff at each church; they know everything. Talk to people who are both deeply involved and marginally involved at each church. Ask them what they feel are the best and worst things about the church and the staff. Attend an adult education class taught by the pastor. Try to observe a youth group activity and talk to some of the kids. Finally, listen to each sermon and ask yourself a few questions about it. Did the pastor quote Scripture often and easily, or seem to be making up a personal version of Christianity as he/she went along? Did the pastor spend most of his/her time speaking negatively about others or about what's wrong in the world, and only a little time offering hope and a positive take on the world and on faith? Did the pastor smile or frown? Did he/she raise up your soul to feel that God is present and living? Then flip a coin!