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Well, see, this only happens at daily mass (where there are never more than 10 people). On Sunday masses, everything is done correctly (I thinkPCG, if there’s another Mass that you can easily access, like Benedictgal I’d suggest going to that one. If this is your only reasonable choice for Mass, you must continue to go to meet your Sunday obligation. It sounds like the priest is willing to allow you to receive the Eucharist normally, he just doesn’t want to change the practice for everyone.
So I write a letter? Would I email it or send it through carrier? See the thing is, I’ve never even done this before, so I have no idea how to contact the bishop, or what to write in the letterI also commend you for speaking up. That ain’t easy! You did the right thing. The next step, as Benedictgal explained would be to contact the bishop. Just mention the facts, don’t include a lot of your own personal opinions, but state that you believe the practice is a prohibited and considered a grave abuse and ask that the bishop order the practice to be ended immediately. Don’t insert irrelevant information or other complaints, like a list of other minor things the priest does wrong. (This is what makes people come off like cranks or crackpots, and what gets people ignored.) If your letter is longer than two pages, it’s too long.
Yes, I think this is good advice. I am going to give him a week to respond to me (so I can give him time to “talk with” the other priest), but if he hasn’t responded by next Wednesday, I’m sending the letter. I just don’t want to end up sending the letter and it turns out that they decided they would stop. That would suck :doh2:It sounds like this priest isn’t badly intentioned, he just has dramatically wrong ideas about what’s permitted and what elements of the liturgy he’s allowed to change. That being the case, you should consider telling him beforehand that you’re planning to send a letter to the bishop, and even show it to him and asking him to comment on it. The more open and straightforward you are, the better it is for everyone. He doesn’t seem to think he’s “sneaking around the rules,” just that the “real” rules are different from what you’re telling him, so you should not adopt a posture of getting him “punished for breaking the rules,” just getting clarification of what the rules are.
And thank you for all the adviceGood luck, PCG, and thanks for having the courage to stand up for the Blessed Sacrament. :knight1:
But I do have another question… at Sunday masses, the UCC has a practice here of using real bread – not the wafers. The liturgy committee makes it themselves. Now I know for a fact that they use the proper ingredients (just wheat and water), so that is not my concern. I guess I’m just wondering if this is okay. And then, after the consecration has been done and we are singing the Agnus Dei, the priest and several Eucharistic ministers break the pieces of bread into little pieces for each attendee. Is this allowed? I assume it is, I just don’t want to take any more chances.