Is passionate kissing WITHIN marriage ok?

[mommamaree]

Ok, so what about activity that leads to female orgasm prior to actual penetration as long as it is a lead up to regular intercourse? As a way to help the woman more easily achieve orgasm from intercourse?

Foreplay that includes/allows female orgasm prior to penetration is okay, too.

 

[12345678]

Well yes, but that’s not the same thing as saying that all strong sexual desire is lustful or that all passionate lovemaking is lustful-- It isn’t.

Did someone say that? I agree with you.

 

[12345678]

Ok, so what about activity that leads to female orgasm prior to actual penetration as long as it is a lead up to regular intercourse? As a way to help the woman more easily achieve orgasm from intercourse?

While Saint John Paul II explained a couple should aim towards simultaneous orgasm… any time (foreplay, during intercourse, or right after the husband climaxes) is ok. Actually it is encouraged for a husband to lovingly help his wife reach orgasm after he has climaxed if she has not and she could have negative consequence because of not reaching that point.

 

[EasterJoy]

The possibility that one or both may fall to the sin of masturbation. At least that is the answer that I have heard time and again.

I see what you mean now. That can be a near occasion in the particular sense, but it is not one in the general sense. IOW, it may be a reason that some decide it would be better for them to avoid it, but it is not a reason for a general prohibition. For instance, some people who have given up alcohol for Lent ought to stay away from taverns, but others will be able to go into a tavern and order a non-alcoholic drink every time with no problem. It just depends on the person and their particular weaknesses. It is an issue worth pointing out.