I suffer from gynecomastia which is enlargement of male breast tissue. That is not dangerous but it is hurting my self-esteem real bad, picking clothes that fit is difficult, and its awkward when I am on the beach or at the pool, so I am seriously considering a plastic surgery. Now this might seeam as a silly question but I am worried if plastic is surgery a sin? Is there something immoral about it, something that contradicts Christianity and what does the Bible say, if it says anything l about that matter?
Our appearance, like it or not, is the first impression we give to people, right or wrong.
I had a friend who had something with his nose when he was a kid. For years, he was even teased about it, “hose nose”. As an adult, he finally decided to do something about it. He said immediately after that, his life changed for the better, that he got a whole new circle of friends. Seems they had rejected him, before, due to his appearance.
I took some social work classes, and one of the most surprising things I learned was how “disabling” certain conditions are. They weren´t always the ones I anticipated. Some of the conditions surprised me. For instance, skin conditions or ones that affected the face affected how the person related, how he/she, IF he/she, would even be accepted by others.
Some people, especially those with low self esteem, as a result of certain aspects of their body, are sometimes helped greatly by surgery.
If you have some medical condition, especially, please don´t feel badly about considering corrective surgery. There´s nothing “sinful” about that.
That´d be great if you could get clothes, off the rack, that fit your better. Mainly, it´d be wonderful if you´d feel better about your appearance, as well.
I´ve seen firsthand how even small changes for the better in our appearance first affect how we feel about ourselves. This can often help increase our self esteem. Secondly, it does affect how others see us, and relate to us, or it can.
Even a change in clothes can have a major impact on whether, and if, people will receive us.
So, although you don´t need anybody´s okay, if you want to do this, go for it!
