Is selfishness the essence of all sin? Seems like it to me

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Is selfishness the essence of all sin?

Think of these various sinful situations:

(1) The man who has sex with a string of women, leading them all one by making them think he might marry them, but has no such intention at all. Isn’t the sin here just the selfishness? The pleasures of sex are not a sin. The sin is that the man has not made a real commitment in marriage to love, cherish and support any of these women before taking pleasure from them. Right?

(2) The man who spends every waking minute to making more and more money, even though he already has more than enough to raise and educate his kids and provide a retirement for his wife and himself. Isn’t the sin here just the selfishness of wanting the status of being known as rich. Making money itself is not a sin. It is the vainglorious desire to be a “big shot” in the eyes of society, rather than dedicating one’s life to serving God and neighbor, that makes the sin. Right?

As I see it, in this country, the Left Wing generally promotes SELFISHNESS in form of the inordinate pursuit of FLESHLY (Golden Calf) pleasures.

The Right Wing generally promotes SELFISHNESS in the form of the inordinate pursuit of MAMMON (monetary) pleasures.

The “Catholic Wings” on the Angel of the LORD by contrast calls us to give up selfishness in ALL forms. Right?

When I read the New Testament, I again and again see JESUS CHRIST, and ST. PAUL and the other writers, promoting, in essence, UNselfishness.

That seems to be the CORE of what the WAY OF CHRIST is all about. Right?

Just recall how St. Paul wrote this:

Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.”
Romans 13:10.

Just re-read the famous passage in 1 Corinthians 13, the passage read at wedding (but which really isn’t meant for marriage specifically but for the entire Christian life). Here are some parts:

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


When LORD JESUS was asked what is the greatest commandment, remember his answer? Love God, love neighbor. He kept it very simple. He didn’t announce that anyone had to adhere to dogmas or rituals. He was no Pharisee.

The whole New Testament , and the Lives of the Saints, seem to scream out that underlying essence of all sin is SELFISHNESS.

All the chaos in the world, in families, in politics, in businesses, in military hot zones, in parishes, in dioceses, and so on, is not this all just the results of selfishness of souls?

Isn’t the solution to all this for people to REPENT and CONVERT to the WAY OF UNSELFISHNESS, also know as AGAPE (Christian) LOVE?

Right or wrong? True or false?
 
Yes I think that in large measure it is.
“Pride” is often touted as the sin from which other sins spring, but in may ways “Selfishness” and “Pride” tend to go hand in hand.

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Just as love of God, if followed devoutly, will naturally inspire all virtue and diminish all vice… pride, when followed devoutly, will inspire all vice and diminish all virtue.
 
You hit the nail pretty closely on the head, but I would add that selfishness and pride are at least propped up and fed by a pretty liberal dose of stupidity. People who haven’t really tried it don’t know the consolation and deep satisfaction that comes from trying to live a life in conformity with the will of the Lord, and, more times than not, end up paying the price for a life based on self-centeredness. I’m not talking about their eternal state, though: I’m talking about right here and right now.

Living based on the futile attempt to satisfy ever-increasing demands is a real wild goose chase. By definition, this person will never be satisfied. (S)he doesn’t even have a concept of what “enough” is, just a vague and sometimes very acute anxiety that “enough” will never be realized. Justifications step in to rationalize all kinds of unacceptable behavior in pursuit of “enough,” and “enough” never gets there, because there will always be something lacking. To a person of faith, this is so shriekingly and painfully obvious, because everything other than God is finite, corruptible, and eventually disappointing. Vanitas vanitorum, in other words. To the person determined to live selfishly, that fact is so obscure it might as well be quantum physics. Hence the stupidity. It isn’t even good self-interest!

Attempting to live selfishly in order to fulfill one’s ever-increasing and never satisfied demands is the most short-sighted and frankly, moronic, basis for living, and the results frequently are a living hell right here on earth for those who pursue it.
 
I suppose every sin boils down to a failure of self donation in favor of apparent self interest.
 
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