Is she trying to use magic on me?

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So, there’s a girl, we used to be really good friends before, and suddenly we broke contact, she kinda disappeared. After that I saw her pics on social media with satanisitc symbols on her which was weird.
To make it even more weird I decided to text her recently and she was right in the conversation when I did, and we didn’t talk for months before that. She has told me she knew I would text because she was thinking of me. Anyways, she wanted to meet with me again badly, we met and she was different, she kissed me even though I told her that I’m seeing someone. Then she insisted me to show her pic of girl I’m dating with, talk her a lot about her, she even didn’t want to give me back her lipstick that stayed in my pocket, and she was joking about relationships a lot. And it was fun.
Then no long after that, the girl I was dating with started to have issues. She had horrible nightmares, cramps and pains, she lost weight and at the end broke up with me without explanation.
Then I didn’t want to see my friend anymore, and was telling her I have other plans every weekend, weird thing was - ALL OF THEM WOULD FAIL. So after few weeks I gave up and saw her again.
I complained about paper my coworker gave me, and how he always gives me papers even though we are both new, and we compete on who will stay at work. She just moved paper away and kissed me and told me: You are staying!
And my coworker soon started to lose some weight, lack concentration and look pale, the same way as my GF did… they decided to fire him, but I left instead. I told them that I don’t want new contract when this one is out (I hated that job).
Finally, I had some health issues, even before I ever met this girl, and recently they disappeared. There is more, but I think this is the main part I want to tell, to make this understandable and short at same time.
Just, last night she told me that I will be happy if I’ll be with her, and she can make my life better, so I should give her a chance.
What do you think?
 
nrewbie said:
I posted this 30 secodns ago, I doubt you even had time to read LOL
I assume you just read the title…
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:roll_eyes:

You’re questioning my reading speed as a measure of the validity of my comment?

None of what you wrote is anything more than circumstantial. Girlfriends and boyfriends break up all the time. People get health issues. Your focus on your coworker’s paperwork is bizarre. The fact that 2 people began to look pale and ill in the same office or who were around each other a lot is not a supernatural sign, but one of environmental “sick building” syndrome or lack of sleep. You hated working there—have you ever heard about toxic stress?

And manipulation?

Go to the doctor, ensure you haven’t been exposed to a serious, toxic chemical or other illness and then go to a psychologist.
 
Hey resident Goth here. Witchcraft is kinda a real thing but a lot of kids these days have no idea what they are doing or just trying to be edgy. Also a lot of modern witchcraft is really not historically correct. Well I’d say good for you you are dating but sad you didn’t get the girl you wanted. It is probably more consequence of kissing the other one or dabbling that is why than being cursed. Remember as a Christian you have a certain degree of protection from witchcraft. I don’t think this is a serious case of spiritual warfare as it is just being young and dating drama. Also dismissing belief in spooky things as mental illness is uncharitable on a Catholic forum. Have fun be a gentleman and try to pick the right one. Rejection is God’s protection.
 
nrewbie said:
My question was “is she?” or “is she not?” type, not if I need to see a doctor, based simply on your opinion, you have right to have your opinion, but you might be wrong.
You can’t say all this doesn’t look weird, and if you are on Catholic answers then I assume you do believe in something supernatural, because God is supernatural too I’d say.
And by the ammount of self confidence and arrogance you showed here, I assume you are only coming here to treat some complex. If you need psychologist, that’s OK, but that doesn’t mean everyone does.
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This is so far from supernatural it isn’t even funny.

Your entire OP is simply a series of unrelated coincidences you’re stringing together to come to a conclusion that you want. Topped off with a domineering and manipulative girl that you seem to think uses magic, and not wits, to control you. Nothing you said gives any credence to the supernatural.

If you are ill you need a doctor.

If you are mentally stressed then see a psychologist.
 
I understand your point, but we aren’t kids sadly. I honestly do hope all those events are somehow a coincidence.
I personally didn’t experience either nightmares or pains or anything else, but something weird has happened to people around me. And the way that every plans I try to make fall apart, except for plans with that girl were also spooky. I will see her few more times, to see if she means to change my life in trully a good way, or spooky way.
 
Well if she is using magic on you she doesn’t love you or herself and even if it works neither do you.

You are fine.

Pray to Michael or Benedict.

Find someone good.

Bad girls are fun but find a wife.

Don’t get single and cranky like me
 
Excuse me for not reading all of this but if you’re assuming wondering if she’s doing witchcraft to you and if your Catholic why don’t you pray for removal from witchcraft in your life? And the girl you were with and that coworker and maybe ask God to remove witchcraft off of the girl you’re wondering is doing witchcraft.

Are you Catholic is she Catholic?
 
If your Catholic how about you ask God to put the people He wants in your life in it and keep the people He wants out of your life out?
 
Only I’m Catholic in this story. And I’m not praying since I’m still even not 100% all this really is magic :confused:
 
PaladinSword said:
Well if she is using magic on you she doesn’t love you or herself and even if it works neither do you.

You are fine.

Pray to Michael or Benedict.

Find someone good.

Bad girls are fun but find a wife.

Don’t get single and cranky like me
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Poor Paladin. Hugs to you.

Hope you can find someone who isn’t crazy or manipulative!
 
I think you seeing what you perceived as satanic symbols on her social media kinda spooked you and now you are seeing things through that lens. If you look for it you will see it even when it isn’t there.

This is how superstition and folklore start: Weird coincidences.
 
Well, the way she said it on our native language was really funny.

And right now it hit me, that she actually took lipstick that belonged to my GF and a note my coworker gave me. And after that - they experienced weird things. And now this is really spooky :confused:
 
Lol I like crazy and manipulative that is the problem.

Anyway all paladins are single these days.

Lol.
 
She told me she is Satanist btw… I forgot mentioning it up there.
But that’s also possible what you said.

And despite all that, I’ll give her chance, maybe she changes back, and there’s high chance she isn’t using any magic.
 
Brittany said:
I’d suggest going to a priest, praying, and cutting all ties with her. Even if she isn’t doing witchcraft, the fact that you’re suspicious of it is enough. And even if she’s not doing magic, it’s really weird of her to take things.
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This. She sounds domineering, vindictive, manipulative and sneaky. Witchcraft or not, she’s someone that should be avoided at all costs. People use “witchcraft” as an adjective to get their way. It dosn’t mean it’s really being used.
 
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Satanists don’t believe in the supernatural, they don’t put curses on people and laugh at people who do.
 
I honestly don’t have clue about what they do or what they don’t do, and I clearly don’t think she does either, but she does spend lots of time meditating and stuff like that. Which is unusal to me, personally.
 
She is the kind that follows some rules and meditates and even knows names of some fallen angels. And draws symbols of them too and posts it on instagram. That’s translated to “sigil” from my language.
 
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