I’ll answer your question concerning Mary, the mother of Jesus. All honor and glory goes to God; for it is God that saved Mary and God that gave her the PRIVEDGE to carry the redeemer of all Christians in her womb.
Catholics agree that God saved Mary (after all, she said, “My spirit rejoices in God
my Savior” - Luke 1:47) and Catholics agree that being chosen to be the mother of the Messiah was a privilege, seeing as there was nothing she (or anyone else) could have done to earn this.
But when you stated,
“All honor and glory goes to God” are you suggesting that humans are not to give honor to other humans?
I hope not because in doing so you would be in clear violation of the Scriptures. For example (and I will be quoting the RSV in this post):
1Peter 2:17
“Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor.”
So Peter says to honor everyone,
including the pagan Roman emperor, but you suggest that we are not to honor the very mother of the Messiah?
An earthly king and non-believer gets honor but the mother of the very King of kings and Lord of lords doesn’t?
How in the world can that possibly make any sense?
Matthew 13:57
And they took offense at him. But Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor except in his own country and in his own house.”
So a prophet is due honor but not the very mother of the Messiah?
A prophet preaches the Word of God, while Mary was the very channel by which the Word of God became flesh and dwelt among us.
John 12:26
“If any one serves me, he must follow me; and where I am, there shall my servant be also; if any one serves me, the Father will honor him.”
So
God himself will honor those who serve Jesus.
Let me ask you, does carrying Jesus in her womb for nine months and then raising him from childhood to adulthood count as “serving Jesus?”
If so, then *God himself *honors Mary! So why can’t I?
Exodus 20:12
"Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which the LORD your God gives you.”
This, of course, is one of the Ten Commandments.
Jesus obviously did not break one of the Ten Commandments, so he, himself, honored Mary.
If Jesus honored Mary then why can’t I honor Mary
in imitation of him?
Isn’t imitating Christ what a Christian is
supposed to be doing?
Just as all the saints make up the body of Christ, Jesus made it clear that not one part of the body is more or less important than any other MEMBER.
We do not honor people because they are “more important.” We honor people because they are owed honor. I quoted Peter above which says that we are to honor all people. Moreover, the Bible tells us to single out certain people to honor in a special way. Want proof?
Philippians 2:29-30
(Concerning the treatment of Epaphrodi’tus)
“So receive him in the Lord with all joy; and honor such men,
for he nearly died for the work of Christ, risking his life to complete your service to me.”
So the service that Epaphrodi’tus gave to the Church makes him worthy of honor, but the service the Mary gave as mother of the Messiah does not?
1Timothy 5:17
“Let the elders who rule well
be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching” (emphasis added)
So elders who preach and teach well are considered not only worthy honor, but
double honor, but the mother of the Messiah is not?
Mark 10:19
“You know the commandments: `Do not kill, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Do not defraud, Honor your father and mother.’"
This, as you probably know, was Jesus’ answer to the question about how one inherits eternal life.
Matthew 15:3-4
He answered them, "And why do you transgress the commandment of God for the sake of your tradition?
For God commanded,
Honor your father and your mother,' and, He who speaks evil of father or mother, let him surely die’.”
Ok, if this does not single out the idea that mothers and fathers are given a greater sense of honor among humans then I don’t know what does!