Its either God, or I’d rather have never of existed at all.
Wow. I’m sorry to interrupt this thread, but I’ve just been glancing through it today, and I must say that I have a morbid fascination with the psychology behind this post (#34).
“Either there’s a god or life is worthless!” What a childish attitude…The next thing you know, you’ll be demanding to play with all the toys or you’re going home, harumph!
If I could just interject my own thoughts, I would agree that ultimately in the long run, to the universe, nothing we do matters in the slightest. However, to us, right here and right now, what we do matters a great deal.
I don’t need to believe that something “objectively special is occurring” when I have feelings. The chemicals that compose me have perfectly good reasons for causing me to feel what I feel (for example, I tend to feel love for people who are kind to me, who share my values, etc. Those are all great reasons).
I would say that the poster who has these kinds of thoughts has some sort of neurological inability to be happy with the way things are. I mean, to actually say that you would
consider suicide in the face of reality seems to speak to a very serious condition. In all honesty, I would seek a professional’s help.
Have you never sat quietly and just felt the joy that it is to be alive?
If you care not for objective identity, meaning, purpose, moral truth, and existential significance, then mere pleasure, however finite and fleeting, is going to appear a better deal to you.
It’s not that I “care not” for those things. It’s that there’s no good reason to suppose that any of those things exist outside of human minds.
And what is this “mere pleasure” stuff? People are driven to act by their values, which do not always necessarily consist of simple pleasure-seeking. Values come from a lot of sources: biological empathy, reason, one’s training in society, etc.
A lot of people find meaning and significance in helping others, in building a better world in the here and now, the world that matters to us in this moment. It’s irrelevant if the “significance” is “objective” or whether it “matters” to the universe or to some other being: it matters to us, right here and right now.
If nothing else, reading your post has made me very glad that I don’t share your sorrowful, depressive view of the world. It is with much satisfaction that I go outside now to sit quietly and enjoy the sheer joy of this beautiful, fleeting existence that is all the more precious to me for the simple reason that it will not last forever.