Argh, I had this half-written, and it disappeared
I do not think that you have been spared from this at all!
The Jews have something in their studies which is called, iirc, pilpul, where very fine distinctions are made between very similar things in order to reconcile apparent differences. This type of thinking is not limited to Judaism. Some people think it is a trick, but it is no maore a trick than to distinguish between identical twins and accept them as two separate individuals. Remember that we humans are often limited, esp in language, and most esp when we are dealing with different languages.
So let us consider the concept of “vengeance.” In the same way that altho God calls Himself Lord but allows ruling among humans, so God both retains the right to vengeance and allows us to participate in it. The confusion comes because we see vengeance as covering the personal application of consequences for an action directed towards oneself in some way, but the general definition is much more general: “n. Infliction of punishment in return for a wrong committed; retribution.” This could easily apply to what occurs in US courts every day, no?
In the same way, we see
St Thomas address this point: Reply to Objection 1. He who takes vengeance on the wicked in keeping with his rank and position does not usurp what belongs to God but makes use of the power granted him by God. For it is written (Romans 13:4) of the earthly prince that “he is God’s minister, an avenger to execute wrath upon him that doeth evil.” If, however, a man takes vengeance outside the order of divine appointment, he usurps what is God’s and therefore sins.
My point above.
Reply to Objection 2. The good bear with the wicked by enduring patiently, and in due manner, the wrongs they themselves receive from them: **but they do not bear with them as to endure the wrongs they inflict on God and their neighbor. **For Chrysostom [Cf. Opus Imperfectum, Hom. v in Matth., falsely ascribed to St. Chrysostom] says:
"It is praiseworthy to be patient under our own wrongs, but to overlook God’s wrongs is most wicked."
Can you see that at times we are *called *to commit an act against the bad act of another? Can you see that we are not to ignore the pain inflicted on a neighbor because, after all, vengeance is the Lord’s, or because each must bear wrongs patiently?
And can you see that letting slide an insult against God would be very wrong on many levels?
We Catholics are also called by the Church to admonish sinners–it is one of the spiritual acts of mercy. This is one level one which it would be wrong to ignore someone’s insulting God.
Reply to Objection 3. The law of the Gospel is the law of love, and therefore those who do good out of love, and who alone properly belong to the Gospel, **ought not to be terrorized by means of punishment, **but only those who are not moved by love to do good, and who, though they belong to the Church outwardly, do not belong to it in merit.
IOW, we are not called to be bullied; we are esp not called to allow others to be bullied.
This whole entire discussion came about because I called the words of Bishop Sprong claptrap.
If I bought a car which turned out to be a lemon, and a mechanic called it a piece of junk, would I be insulted? Would I say that the mechanic had been uncivil? *On what grounds would I call this man uncivil? *Think about it… on what grounds does the OP call me uncivil?