Is the incidences of reported child sexual abuse skyrocketing?

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What factors gave rise to these reported abuse findings? Makes the abuse in the Catholic Church seem trivial in comparison. Did the reporting of the sexual abuse of children become a can of worms that was ignored in the past?
 
You seem to be referring to something–do you have a link?

One reason reported cases are rising is that child abuse, esp sexual, used to nit be reported. Now it is.
 
I have just been accused of this crime. It is supposed to have happened 35 years ago so I have no defence and I will be facing a life sentence if/when I am found guilty.
I have no faith in the legal system here (England) . We have gone way too far down the criminal compensation route so that now anyone can make these allegations and get money for telling lies. I do feel sorry for the genuine victims of abuse but their cases are being undermined by the despicable ones who make their allegations solely for a cash payout.
I will not plea bargain to reduce my sentence. I will do all the time handed to me as an innocent man.
At least I will still have some dignity.
God will be my judge and i will stand before him knowing I have been blamed for something I am not guilty of.
Always remember that it is not the prisoner who suffers, it is their family that pays the price.
 
What factors gave rise to these reported abuse findings? Makes the abuse in the Catholic Church seem trivial in comparison. Did the reporting of the sexual abuse of children become a can of worms that was ignored in the past?
Today people are more aware of it and fewer people are ashamed to report it. 40 years ago when I was growing up it was swept under the rug with most people thinking it didn’t effect small children who were abused. For boys that were molested by men it could be a horrible ‘gay’ label placed on them with discrimination and harassment by the child’s peers while they are growing up.
 
Today people are more aware of it and fewer people are ashamed to report it. 40 years ago when I was growing up it was swept under the rug with most people thinking it didn’t effect small children who were abused. For boys that were molested by men it could be a horrible ‘gay’ label placed on them with discrimination and harassment by the child’s peers while they are growing up.
And that more people find it quite profitable to make the claim.
 
I have just been accused of this crime. It is supposed to have happened 35 years ago so I have no defence and I will be facing a life sentence if/when I am found guilty.
I have no faith in the legal system here (England) . We have gone way too far down the criminal compensation route so that now anyone can make these allegations and get money for telling lies. I do feel sorry for the genuine victims of abuse but their cases are being undermined by the despicable ones who make their allegations solely for a cash payout.
I will not plea bargain to reduce my sentence. I will do all the time handed to me as an innocent man.
At least I will still have some dignity.
God will be my judge and i will stand before him knowing I have been blamed for something I am not guilty of.
Always remember that it is not the prisoner who suffers, it is their family that pays the price.
This is terrible :mad: So sorry for you! Prayers :signofcross:
 
What factors gave rise to these reported abuse findings? Makes the abuse in the Catholic Church seem trivial in comparison. Did the reporting of the sexual abuse of children become a can of worms that was ignored in the past?
Factors: increased awareness, agnecies are updated with more staff, ppl in soc or med fields feel pressure to report ‘borderline’ cases, individuals who do the work of investigations are sometimes victims of abuse themselves they have repressed and are not ‘acting out’ albeit unknowingly, on random familes 'getting back at thier parents.

I, as someone who lived in a family that was reported on and should have been, but the times were different, I should have been taken away or they should have had a case worker meeting with me and mommy weekly for several months. All they did was check to see if i had ‘strap marks’ on my back, i didn’t, case closed.

Hey wait…what about me being MOLESTED, PULLED AROUND BY THE HAIR AS AN INFANT, ETC… sorry kid, no dice in the 70’s.

Peace,
Bill
 
Today people are more aware of it and fewer people are ashamed to report it. 40 years ago when I was growing up it was swept under the rug with most people thinking it didn’t effect small children who were abused. For boys that were molested by men it could be a horrible ‘gay’ label placed on them with discrimination and harassment by the child’s peers while they are growing up.
Sadly it will be a couple decades before people actuall start talking about cases of sexual assault/rape with females as the perpetrators and males as victims. I know it happens because it happened to me.
 
We have gone way too far down the criminal compensation route so that now anyone can make these allegations and get money for telling lies.
Unfortunately, in an effort to punish the guilty we have abandoned our safeguards designed to protect the innocent, like the need for evidence beyond reasonable doubt, collaborating witnesses, reasonable statute of limitations, etc.
 
I have just been accused of this crime. It is supposed to have happened 35 years ago so I have no defence and I will be facing a life sentence if/when I am found guilty.
I have no faith in the legal system here (England) . We have gone way too far down the criminal compensation route so that now anyone can make these allegations and get money for telling lies. I do feel sorry for the genuine victims of abuse but their cases are being undermined by the despicable ones who make their allegations solely for a cash payout.
I will not plea bargain to reduce my sentence. I will do all the time handed to me as an innocent man.
At least I will still have some dignity.
God will be my judge and i will stand before him knowing I have been blamed for something I am not guilty of.
Always remember that it is not the prisoner who suffers, it is their family that pays the price.
THis is not my understanding of how the law works. I question the veracity of your post or your understanding of your situation.
 
My only reference is simply personal observation based on reading the news over the years.
Better 10 false reports of child abuse be investigated and found false than for 1 to be true and to have not been investigated. .

BTW: there is nothing trivial about the sex abuse problems which are facing the Church. I do believe that many of the Bishops are aggressively seeking to address this tragic issue.
 
Sadly it will be a couple decades before people actuall start talking about cases of sexual assault/rape with females as the perpetrators and males as victims. I know it happens because it happened to me.
Child sexual assault against males perpetrated by their mothers or female care-givers is investigated all of the time.

Tecent news stories show how women in positions of authority have abused teen-aged boys.

Abuse against adult males is more rare but when it does occur it can happen with males facing a sickness or disability. THis can also happen in the elderly.
 
Child sexual assault against males perpetrated by their mothers or female care-givers is investigated all of the time.

Tecent news stories show how women in positions of authority have abused teen-aged boys.

Abuse against adult males is more rare but when it does occur it can happen with males facing a sickness or disability. THis can also happen in the elderly.
I was sexually abused by a female. It’s interesting that when you say you were sexually abused, if you talk about your family in general, and the interviewer doesn’t ask “by who?” it is assumed it is the male adult as that has happened to me more than once as well. I don’t really care about which gender an abuser is, I care about it stopping.

God Bless,
Bill
 
THis is not my understanding of how the law works. I question the veracity of your post or your understanding of your situation.
Oh, it can. I did a little searching and found that seven states have no statute of limitation on child sexual abuse. Pennsylvania allows charges up until the victim is fifty! England may well allow such charges.
 
Child sexual assault against males perpetrated by their mothers or female care-givers is investigated all of the time.

Tecent news stories show how women in positions of authority have abused teen-aged boys.

Abuse against adult males is more rare but when it does occur it can happen with males facing a sickness or disability. THis can also happen in the elderly.
Yes small children, otherwise quite helpless males or abuse of males by people in a position of power, but sexual assault or rape of males outside of those situation is pretty much never reported. Men also make up over 40% of domestic abuse victims, but no one cares.

It can and does happen to males who are not sick, disabled or otherwise incapable of defending themselves just like it happens to women.
 
Yes small children, otherwise quite helpless males or abuse of males by people in a position of power, but sexual assault or rape of males outside of those situation is pretty much never reported. Men also make up over 40% of domestic abuse victims, but no one cares.

It can and does happen to males who are not sick, disabled or otherwise incapable of defending themselves just like it happens to women.
I know a man who was raped and mugged and never reported it (and never will). He feels shame and didn’t even want to tell me, let alone the police… I know that females often feel the same way but for a man in todays world I think it’s much harder for them to report, and they don’t.
 
I know a man who was raped and mugged and never reported it (and never will). He feels shame and didn’t even want to tell me, let alone the police… I know that females often feel the same way but for a man in todays world I think it’s much harder for them to report, and they don’t.
Why would he admit to others that he was robbed of his dignity as a man so that people can humiliate and degrade him further? Hell even the police degrade men who are victims of domestic violence let alone men who have been sexually assaulted or raped by women.

PS, I was wrong about men make up 40% of victims, 50% of victims in family conflict studies and 10% in crime studies (that’s a rather wide discrepancy). It gets worse, lots of studies show women as more violent against significant others than males and I’m talking physical violence not just psychological violence
 
Why would he admit to others that he was robbed of his dignity as a man so that people can humiliate and degrade him further? Hell even the police degrade men who are victims of domestic violence let alone men who have been sexually assaulted or raped by women.

PS, I was wrong about men make up 40% of victims, 50% of victims in family conflict studies and 10% in crime studies (that’s a rather wide discrepancy). It gets worse, lots of studies show women as more violent against significant others than males and I’m talking physical violence not just psychological violence
I had to call the police on my wife because she kept threatening to call the police on me (the implication of the threat is she would tell them I hit her or something) the actual threats were made: because I wore jeans to a party instead of slacks and refused to go home and change, because after her ranting in the car I gave her the option of either stop the yelling and we continue looking for the store or I go straight home (as I would be able to get there despite her yelling but looking for the store with her ranting was too much), I forget the 3rd one, the one I listed 2nd I called the cops on her. Fortunately she shut up and told the police the truth or I would be screwed, no doubt.

Peace,
Bill
 
I have just been accused of this crime. It is supposed to have happened 35 years ago so I have no defence and I will be facing a life sentence if/when I am found guilty.
I have no faith in the legal system here (England) . We have gone way too far down the criminal compensation route so that now anyone can make these allegations and get money for telling lies. I do feel sorry for the genuine victims of abuse but their cases are being undermined by the despicable ones who make their allegations solely for a cash payout.
I will not plea bargain to reduce my sentence. I will do all the time handed to me as an innocent man.
At least I will still have some dignity.
God will be my judge and i will stand before him knowing I have been blamed for something I am not guilty of.
Always remember that it is not the prisoner who suffers, it is their family that pays the price.
When prosecutors get into a feeding frenzy mode, the innocent can and do go to prison. It is a shame, and such prosecutorial feeding frenzies are often accompanied by media feeding frenzies.

Unfortunately, while it is happening more now, it is not a new phenomenon. Dorothy Rabinowitz’ book “No Crueler Tyrannies” recounts a case of alleged child sexual abuse in a preschool several decades ago. Several innocent people went to prison for crimes which never happened. As far as I know, the prosecutors have still not admitted their idiocies and injustices.
 
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