One of the things that most bothers me about Catholicism is the doctrine that no one outside the Church can be saved. I know that today, the Church is more open and teaches that there is room for ignorance to excuse people for not being Catholic and even hope that infants who die without baptism can be saved.
I don’t think it is “more” open, because it Always taught that.
Scripture, Church Fathers, and Medieval Doctors on the Possibility of Salvation for Non-Catholics
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Just as one example, not long before Unam Sanctam, St. Thomas Aquinas was clear that salvation is possible for non-Catholics, at least in some sense:
St. Thomas Aquinas - “[E]ven if someone is brought up in the forest or among wild beasts…[God will] furnish everyone with what is necessary for salvation, provided that on [man’s] part there is no hindrance. Thus, if someone [who was] brought up [in the wild] followed the direction of natural reason in seeking good and avoiding evil, we must most certainly hold that God would either reveal to him through internal inspiration what had to be believed, or would send some preacher of the faith to him as he sent Peter to Cornelius (Acts 10:20).” (De Veritate Question 14 Article 11 Answer to Objection 1)
And: “[It] is not imputed as a sin to man, if he fails to know what he is unable to know. Consequently ignorance of such like things is called ‘invincible,’ because it cannot be overcome by study. For this reason such like ignorance, not being voluntary, since it is not in our power to be rid of it, is not a sin: wherefore it is evident that no invincible ignorance is a sin.” (Summa Theologica I-II Question 76 Article 2)
And: “[People] can…obtain salvation…[who either] sacramentally [or] mentally are…incorporated in Christ, through Whom alone can salvation be obtained… [F]or instance, when a man wishes to be baptized, but by some ill-chance he is forestalled by death before receiving Baptism…such a man can obtain salvation without being actually baptized, on account of his desire for Baptism… [For] God, Whose power is not tied to visible sacraments, sanctifies [such a] man inwardly.” (Summa Theologica III Question 68 Article 2)
And: “[Man] receives the forgiveness of sins before Baptism in so far as he has Baptism of desire, explicitly or implicitly… [Therefore even] before Baptism Cornelius and others like him receive grace and virtues through their faith in Christ and their desire for Baptism, implicit or explicit.” (Summa Theologica III Question 69 Article 4)
“[For] Cornelius…was not an unbeliever, else his works would not have been acceptable to God… [He] had implicit faith, as the truth of the Gospel was not yet made manifest: hence Peter was sent to him to give him fuller instruction in the faith.” (Summa Theologica II-II Question 10 Article 4)
But it definitely seems that in the past, things like Unam Sanctam said that everyone who wasn’t Catholic and subject of the Pope was absolutely going to hell, ignorant or not.
It doesn’t say “ignorant or not.” In Catholic theology, you Are (in a sense) subject to the pope if you sincerely seek God’s will in a state of invincible ignorance, because you are united to the Church’s soul, even though you are not united to its body. This was long recognized both before and after Unam Sanctam. St. Augustine says that even Heretics, if they are invincibly ignorant and seek the truth, count as members of the Church in the eyes of God. (Letter 43 Chapter 1)
For me, just the bare fact that the Church used to bury unbaptized infants in unconsecrated ground has been probably the biggest thing that has ever made me wonder if Catholicism wasn’t the right form of Christianity.
The fact that the Church had that discipline does not imply a restrictive sense of “extra ecclesiam nulla salus.” That discipline was used to reinforce the doctrine that baptism is necessary for salvation, with all appropriate qualifications. In modern times, we use other methods of reinforcing that doctrine, and the discipline has changed. But that is allowed: disciplines CAN change, and God set up His Church that way. I hope that a disciplinary matter is not a stumbling block on a question of truth because disciplines have little to do with what is or is not true.
And just the fact that the Feeneyites of the St. Benedict Center are allowed to remain in the Church while denying even the Baptism of Blood and Desire for Catechumens—meaning their position is acceptable if not endorsed—is something extremely difficult for me to overcome.
Just because Feeneyites aren’t kicked out does not mean their position is acceptable. Catholics, including Feeneyites, are expected to believe ALL the Church’s teachings, and baptism of desire is confirmed in Catholic dogma: it’s in the Council of Trent Session 7 Canon 4. “If any one saith, that the sacraments of the New Law are not necessary unto salvation, but superfluous; and that, without them, or without the desire thereof, men obtain of God, through faith alone, the grace of justification; though all (the sacraments) are not indeed necessary for every individual; let him be anathema.”
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The Church may not kick out the Feeneyites, but that does not imply that their position is acceptable. The Church wants them to fully adhere to Church teaching, and is pursuing a course that, in the Church’s wisdom, she thinks will draw them closer to her bosom.