It is sad. I am the only one among 4 siblings who is still a practicing Catholic.
I am also one of 4 siblings, 2 girls & 2 boys. Only 1 girl (myself) and 1 boy are left that practice their faith. Although I didn’t practice my faith for many years. I never “left” the Church to go to a protestant church. I just stopped going to Mass. But now, I’m practicing my faith and I love going to Mass and receiving Jesus in the Eucharist. I offer up my holy communions for the 2 siblings who actually left the church for a protestant denomination; both at different times & different denominations. Now the 1 other brother doesn’t even go to church because he doesn’t agree with any of the denominations out there. So he’s his own little “pope” so to speak. He stays home on Sundays and just listens to the radio or watches TV for his “church” time.
I’d once read a message from Our Lady saying we could pray a Rosary for our fallen away members this way; by adding this intention at the beginning: “With this Rosary I bind my family to you Blessed Mother.”
Oh my, I say the same thing!.. well sort of. I have this little card that says, “How To Save Your Children.” It’s from the Marian Movement of Priests. It says the following;
(front)
During one of the cenacles which Fr. Gobbi held in the United States, he was urged by many concerned people to ask Our Lady specifically what could be done to save the youth from the deductions of the world which were leading many of them astray and causing them to leave the Church. Our Lady gave Fr. Gobbi this definite and final solution to console the parents who are so concerned about the salvation of their children:
- Pray the Rosary!
- Every time you pray the Rosary say: “With this Rosary I bind all my children to the Immaculate Heart of Mary.”
- In doing so, Our Lady promised “to see to their souls.”
(back)
– “The rosary is the weapon that I give to these children of mine to fight the great approaching battles which await them.”
(34l)
– “By it [your rosary] you are able to lay bare the plots of my Adversary; you escape from many of his deceits; you defend yourselves from many dangers which he puts in your way; it preserves you from evil and brings you ever closer to me…”
(184j)
– “With this prayer, you are able to obtain from the Lord the great grace of a change of hearts, of the conversion of souls, and of the return of all humanity to God…”
(336n)
The Marian Movement of Priests
P.O. Box 8 St. Francis, ME 04774-0008
I change it a little for my 2 siblings, “With this Rosary I bind my brother & sister to the Immaculate Heart of Mary.”
I tried taking it a step further: Sometimes directly after receiving Holy Communion, I ask Jesus if I could share Him and his graces I’m receiving with my family members. Then I tell Him I know He hasn’t forgotten about them or stopped loving them.
I offer my communion for my brother & sister. I sometimes offer it up for someone else too that had asked me for my prayers.