Laudatur Iesus Christus.
When considering the Canon Law one should remember that it is a code of discipline,
not of best practices. The code, because of its very nature as a disciplinary code outlines the necessary and minimum requirements – the standards below which one cannot go without risking specific punishment.
By implication, this character of the Code invites members of the Church to seek more generous practices exceeding these minimum requirements. To do that, one needs to consider the meaning and history of various practices. One needs to consider other sources of guidance as to the best way to live and even as to how to comport oneself with other members of the Church.
This principle is suggested in the
Preface to the Latin Edition of the Code of Canon Law (1983). This is part of the description of the principles used to revise the Code:
To foster the pastoral care of souls as much as possible, the new law, besides the virtue of justice, is to take cognizance of charity, temperance, humaneness and moderation, whereby equity is to be pursued not only in the application of the laws by pastors of souls but also in the legislation itself.
Hence unduly rigid norms are to be set aside and rather **recourse is to be taken to exhortations and persuasions where there is no need of a strict observance of the law **on account of the public good and general ecclesiastical discipline. (Emphasis added.)
This suggests that the proper approach to the Canon Law is to make sure to meet it, lest the Church be compelled to discipline you, but realize that exceeding its requirements is the goal of a good Catholic. After all, there is no Canon explicitly requiring love of the Lord God or forbidding one to covet a neighbor’s goods; the Church will not punish you for failing these things as a matter of Church discipline. Nevertheless, these Divine laws are binding under the law of love – which the Code explicitly makes superior to the Code – and under threat of Divine retribution, beyond Ecclesial discipline.
I suggest that the original poster’s question constitutes just such an “exhortation and persuasion” as the introduction to the Code foresees. We should heed such calls to holiness as our individual circumstances suggest will be most conducive to sanctity. After all the Faith is about the freedom of sons, not the slavishness of law.
Pax Christi nobiscum.
John Hiner