LOL, trust me, serenity does not come easily. I have had to learn to roll my eyes and to remind myself, over and over again, that my opinions are worthless and that others, even if they are mistaken are above me and must be treated with the utmost respect and courtesy. Detaching from material things, people and places comes easily. Detaching from self if an ongoing process.
Thank you for the comparison to Pope Benedict. It’s quite an honor. It’s funny that you should mention him. When I was a student in Rome, many years ago, I met him many times. I also got to meet Bl. John Paul II twice. To me, they were like Francis and Dominic. Michelle Arnold once wrote an article about that and I had to concur. Bl. John Paul was Francis, gentle, forgiving, eager to bring the loving embrace of Christ to all people, always the contemplative and mystic and willing to lay down his life for peace. Pope Benedict is Dominic, the preacher and teacher, eager to bring the Truth to all who will listen; but like Dominic, always preaching from the bottom up, kind, respectful and non-abrasive toward others, which is so typical of Dominic and the Dominican school.
We should learn from Francis and Dominic, as did their sons, Anthony, Bonaventure, Albert and Thomas Aquinas. God, in his infinite wisdom offers us opportunities to practice the virtues. If I were to try to explain sin in practical terms, I would say that it is the deliberate waste of an opportunity to grow in holiness. I had such an experience today. I was at a Franciscan meeting. After the meeting, a sister started to shout at me, because according to her, I had misstated the birthday of St. Clare. First, of all, that’s not a big deal. Neither the Church nor the Franciscans are going to collapse because we get St. Clare’s birthday wrong.
I looked at Sister and quietly said, “Why are you yelling at me?” She said, “Because I’m right and I want others to know it.” I nodded and simply asked, “Tell me Sister, which is charity, to correct the person who has made a mistake or to announce to the world that one is right?” With that, she moved on and so did I. Everyone who had witnessed the scene also moved on.
My point, sometimes it is hard to be mellow or serene; but that’s when it’s the greatest advantage to the soul.
By the way, my date was correct. I checked it out when I got home.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
