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dulcissima
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Usually I don’t have a problem with this because I am patient and do listen carefully. However, I think sometimes when you are in a medical situtation where there is some urgency or some sense of vulnerability or fear, I think we might not be at our best to be so perfectly patient. We might be in a situation where having to put forth that extra effort might be more than we are capable of. So, try to be patient with people who aren’t as patient as they need to be to understand a heavy accent.My parents have accents and I get so angry when people say they can’t understand them. Honestly, if you take the time to LISTEN carefully and have some patience with them, there usually isn’t a problem. So many people dismiss others because of their accents. I don’t think I have ever had a problem understanding an accent.
I do also think it easier to find that patience and ability to understand when you are talking to someone that you have a regular relationship with. My kids’ pediatrician had a very strong Chinese accent and it never bothered me. I always listened carefully and was able to understand him. When I had the Korean radiology technician last month though, she was a woman whom I had never talked to and I was in a situation where I was scared. Her accent was really more than I could deal with that day.
So, while it would be nice if people were able to carefully listen to the accents of others and be courteous and patient, I think it is also important to understand why not everyone is able to achieve that level of patience every time.