Is there closure in heaven?

[FormerXCatholic]

Im having trouble reconciling and finding closure from a recent break up. The person ended up blocking me from their internet social life and left me in the dark with unanswered questions. The only thing that somewhat makes me feel better is believing that in heaven I will meet this person again and finally out pour my emotions and discuss who was right and wrong and what went wrong in the relationship and what we could have done to make it work.

The human soul wasn’t designed to feel this way. I want her, me and Jesus to grab a private room in heaven. With Jesus as the mediator I want to figure this out and I want her love me as a person and be in communion with me and the rest of us.

Do we as catholics believe that all sins will be punished and all false beliefs will be corrected? I personally want to suffer punishment for the sins I’ve commited. I believe that is fair. I guess I’m just venting and blabbing on. But I want resolve!!! Prayers for her and I are greatly appreciated.

 

[EasterJoy]

*Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth. The former heaven and the former earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. I also saw the holy city, a new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.

I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, God’s dwelling is with the human race. He will dwell with them and they will be his people and God himself will always be with them (as their God). He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there shall be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain, (for) the old order has passed away.” The one who sat on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” Then he said, “Write these words down, for they are trustworthy and true.” * Rev. 21:1-5

You aren’t guaranteed you’ll have everything you want now, but you’ll have true closure. There will be nothing to look back on with any pain.

 

[PolarGuy]

God’s ways are not our ways.

Although I believe there will be many loose ends tied in Heaven, it may be that by the time Heaven rolls around, things we think are important today may not be important any more. Time heals many wounds.

 

[captainrick]

I don’t think that anyone alive knows what happens in heaven. We can only speculate.

 

[SuperLuigi]

That actually happens a lot. I’ve blocked women before on social media after things didn’t work out—or if they were acting out of line.

I don’t know if closure is the right word, but you won’t feel any break-up pains in heaven.

 

[Luvz2travel]

God’s ways are not our ways.

Although I believe there will be many loose ends tied in Heaven, it may be that by the time Heaven rolls around, things we think are important today may not be important any more. Time heals many wounds.

As someone who was on the romance treadmill for many year and decided to jump off the human heart has the ability to heal in wonderful ways. While it might hurt not time and experience may show you it was all for the better if not let her go and find someone who will be a better match for you. Believe me guys have it far easier then girls.