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These so-called ‘orthodox’ dioceses may produce more priests, but there will never produce enough of them, not even if all the dioceses in the US become ‘orthodox’, which is unlikely.
The reasons for becoming a celibate priest have changed in the last century. People don’t need to ‘church climb’ anymore–enter a seminary or a convent to get an education and escape poverty. Thanks to Vat II, marriage isn’t a second-rate institution any more–“It is better to marry than to burn”, Thanks, Paul–; you don’t have to enter a convent or monastery or seminary to get saved or to acquire status and education for yourself and your family. If you want to do church work, you can do it as a married layperson, including becoming a permanent deacon.
I see on this forum and this thread a lot of young men having serious doubts about seminary, which center on celibacy, and well it might; men don’t do well alone. They are more easily isolated and have fewer friends. This isn’t just about sex, as many would have one believe; it’s about having a loving, supportive spouse, family, children, grandchildren, friends and neighbors, and the leisure to enjoy them. If one is considering the priesthood, it might be better joining a religious order and then working in a parish, the way many do; then one has friends and support, a sort of home.
The reasons for becoming a celibate priest have changed in the last century. People don’t need to ‘church climb’ anymore–enter a seminary or a convent to get an education and escape poverty. Thanks to Vat II, marriage isn’t a second-rate institution any more–“It is better to marry than to burn”, Thanks, Paul–; you don’t have to enter a convent or monastery or seminary to get saved or to acquire status and education for yourself and your family. If you want to do church work, you can do it as a married layperson, including becoming a permanent deacon.
I see on this forum and this thread a lot of young men having serious doubts about seminary, which center on celibacy, and well it might; men don’t do well alone. They are more easily isolated and have fewer friends. This isn’t just about sex, as many would have one believe; it’s about having a loving, supportive spouse, family, children, grandchildren, friends and neighbors, and the leisure to enjoy them. If one is considering the priesthood, it might be better joining a religious order and then working in a parish, the way many do; then one has friends and support, a sort of home.