What is the problem?At my college, I shower after exercising at the gym. Ive always had a very strong attraction to girls but I find myself curious to intentionally see the other guys my age “thing.” Is something wrong with me? Is it a sin? Why do I have this feeling?
That’s what I’d guess. If one hasn’t seen other guy’s “things” in the past, curiousity might make one want to look. Before long, that curiousity will pass.I’m not a guy, but this sounds more like curiousity rather than lust.
I think this is the mentality that is leading to such a surplus of homosexuality in our community. Not the curiosity of the other boy’s genetalias, but that you’re afraid of the implications it has on your sexual orientation. Especially in today’s society, when children sling the term “gay” around like a label for their fellow man. Then you begin to fear it’s something you have to embrace as apart of you which isn’t really very signifigant. My grandfather says they used to hold them together to compare sizes when he was a kid. His was bigger. Of course, if it’s sexual in nature, that’s perfectly normal too. People have a tendency to play many sexual deviations in their heads, but that doesn’t make you a homosexual. I have had sexual fantacies that involve two women and playing the part as one of the women, older women in their 20s-30s, and a woman and her daughter (I was sick, I know.) Of course, that’s not the “norm” considered morally acceptable, but it doesn’t stop the human imagination from exploring new deviations. You aren’t considered a homosexual until you become oriented in homosexual correlations, which you’re clearly not, given your concern in the first place. It’s natural, don’t worry.At my college, I shower after exercising at the gym. Ive always had a very strong attraction to girls but I find myself curious to intentionally see the other guys my age “thing.” Is something wrong with me? Is it a sin? Why do I have this feeling?
DittoToo much information, Mr. Z!