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My friend and his wife had their wedding in their home country the Philippines. I was a guest. On our way to the rehearsal dinner just a couple days before the big day, our van gets pulled over. The officer tells our driver he has expired license and instead of writing a ticket he asks for money. It was $20. Several members of the party were willing to give the $20 so we could move on. My friend, the groom, a principled Catholic man asked that nobody give the $20. There was some small talking between the officer and the wedding planner. It was in their native language. They apparently grew up in the same town. The officer found favor with the wedding planner and let us go. No money given and just a verbal warning to take care of the license. The locals told my friend if he continued to resist, we could’ve gotten taken in. My friend, the groom thinks he did the right thing as a Catholic, standing my his moral code, even if it meant his possibly being taken in, inconveniencing us all who travelled a ways and the possibility of a delayed wedding. I disagree. He believes it is sinful to cooperate in this bribery. I see this as extortion not bribery. And he is the victim of extortion and God would’ve understood his circumstance. It is common practice among police officers in the Philippines to do this. Graft and corruption are rampant in the Philippines from what I hear. How could there be any moral implications for victims of extortion? There are people who would lose a whole day’s wage - money for themselves and their poor families if they resisted and didn’t give a few pesos. I’d like to hear where in Scripture or cannon law or the Catechism that a victim of extortion is admonished.
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