I totally agree with you and have voiced my concern many times about deliberately drawing a distinction, and that it is divisive and not constructive. But it appears the forum is staying, so it looks like we will just have to continue to chime in when those who feel they have a better mass than someone else, and gently remind them that we really are One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Faith. And division is just wrong.
----sigh----
~Liza
I agree that we are perhaps experiencing the greatest division among Catholics since the Arian heresy (and perhaps even more so). Fr. Brian Harrison’s article in the book “The Reform of the Reform?” by Fr. Thomas Kocik (Ignatius Press) I believe is pertinent here. Naturally, I recommend reading the entire essay if possible. A good portion of the article in the book appears here:
http://www.thechristianactivist.com/vol8/V8Crisis.htm
Here is an excerpt (italics in original):
"In short, what we have witnessed in these thirty years has been a tragic polarization and fragmentation among Catholics, in regard to the liturgy. But while so many have been drawing swords either to defend or attack the post-conciliar changes in the rite of Mass, not many seem to have noticed that the very existence of such tension, bitterness, and division is about the most eloquent possible evidence that the liturgical reform introduced in the name of Vatican Council II has been seriously defective. What both liberals and conservatives often forget is the fact that, in the words of Saint Thomas Aquinas, "The Eucharist is the sacrament of the Church’s
unity.
… The implications of this profound truth for the post-Vatican II liturgical reform seem to me very serious. If one of the main purposes of the eucharistic liturgy is to “renew, strengthen, and deepen” [CCC 1396] the
unity of all Catholics in the one Mystical Body, then what are we to think of a reform that, whatever its positive results may have been, has also managed to provoke more discord, mutual alienation, and disunity than any officially introduced liturgical innovation in the entire history of the Church?
… Now, can the new rites be said to have promoted “unity” [Sacrosanctum Concilium (SC) no. 1] among believers, when we see more strife and
disunity than ever in connection with the liturgy? It may be true that Catholics and Protestants now feel less divided than before, but not in the way the Council Fathers expected. They hoped that liturgical reform would help Protestants to become more Catholic in their thinking; but all that has happened is that Catholics have demonstrably become more Protestant in their thinking! The Vatican II Fathers, as we have just heard, hoped that a revised liturgy would be a means of “help[ing] to call all mankind into the Church’s fold” [SC, no. 1]. But how could anyone claim that this hope has been even partially fulfilled when in most countries rates of conversion to Catholicism have plummeted to an all-time low, priests and religious have abandoned their holy vocations in tens of thousands, innumerable other Catholics have given up the faith altogether, and of those who do still profess it, fewer than ever now attend Mass regularly?"
(pp. 154-157)
God bless!