MariaG:
So that verse is giving believers, on the authority of God’s word, to tell others after listening to their confession that their sins are forgiven? All men? not just a select group?
Yes Maria, that is what I am saying. It is not confession as you practice it; it is not a regularly scheduled event. But in the course of my Christian life other brothers and sisters in the Lord will confess things to the Lord, and to me, and vice versa. And at that time, and after prayer, I always remind them that their sins are forgiven them. As John tells us, if we confess our sins He is faithful and righteous to forgive us.
I don’t know what kind of relationships you have with fellow Catholics who attend the same church as you. But in my life, those I know from church are my family, and my wife and I spend a great deal of time with them, not just at church, but in each other’s homes. Studying scripture, having dinner, playing chess, watching football, watching baseball, going out to dinner together, going to movies together, going to museums and other outings together; we are involved in the lives of one another. We keep each other accountable, and come alongside each other, and bear each others’ burdens as well as each others’ joys.
We are committed to the “one anothers”
Be at peace with one another … Mark 9:50
Love one another … John 13:34
We are individually members of one another … Romans 12:5
Be devoted to one another … Romans 12:10
Give Preference to one another … Romans 12:10
Being of the same mind toward one another … Romans 12:16
Don’t judge one another’s liberty … Romans 14:13
Be of the same mind as one another … Romans 15:5
Accept one another … Romans 15:7
Admonish one another … Romans 15:14
Greet one another with a holy kiss … Romans 16:16
Don’t have lawsuits with one another … 1 Corinthians 6:7
Wait for one another at the Lord’s table … 1 Corinthians 11:33
Care for one another … 1 Corinthians 12:25
Serve one another … Galatians 5:13
Don’ bite and devour one another … Galatians 5:15
Don’t become boastful in challenging one another … Galatians 5:26
Don’t be envying one another … Galatians 5:26
Showing forbearance to one another … Ephesians 4:2
Be kind to one another … Ephesians 4:32
Speak to one another in psalms & hymns & spiritual songs … Ephesians 5:19
Submitting to one another in the fear of Christ … Ephesians 5:21
Regard one another as more important than himself … Philippians 2:3
Don’t lie to one another … Colossians 3:9
Bearing with one another … Colossians 3:13
Teaching and admonishing one another … Colossians 3:16
Abound in love for one another … 1 Thessalonians 3:12
Comfort one another … 1 Thessalonians 4:18
Bear one another’s burdens … Galatians 6:2
Encourage one another … 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Build up one another … 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Live in peace with one another … 1 Thessalonians 5:13
Don’t repay one another with evil … 1 Thessalonians 5:15
Seek the good of one another … 1 Thessalonians 5:15
Don’t hate one another … Titus 3:3
Stimulate one another to love and good deeds … Hebrews 10:23
Don’t forsake assembling with one another … Hebrews 10:24
Do not speak against one another … James 4:11
Do not complain against one another … James 5:9
Confess your sins to one another … James 5:16
Pray for one another … James 5:16
Fervently love one another from the heart … 1 Peter 1:22
Be hospitable to one another without complaint … 1 Peter 4:9
Employ your spiritual gift in serving one another … 1 Peter 4:10
Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another … 1 Peter 5:5
Have fellowship with one another … 1 John 1:7